Hi Littlewolf!
No need to apologize for anything!
There is a terrific fund offered through Autism Ontario called the Building Brighter Futures Fund. It is money allotted to assist adults on the spectrum connect with their communities. It can be recreation-based – so horseback riding lessons are something you could apply funds to once you have applied.
Here is the link – and while they are not accepting applications at this point, you can sign up for their enews and it will tell you when the application process opens.
http://www.autismontario.com/client/aso/ao.nsf/36805f66b53925f08525712b0056c229/a58a502a2f05518085257c16006101d3?OpenDocument
There is a specific ASD ConnectABILITY thread in this forum under the Fee for Service Category which you can post any questions in too!