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COVID-19 Mental Health Resources

Trauma is the lasting emotional response that can result from living through an event that undermines a person’s sense of physical or emotional safety.  Long after the traumatic event occurs, people who have experienced trauma can continue to feel the effects which can impact their ability to function day to day.

COVID-19 has had an effect on everyone’s sense of physical and emotional safety.  For individuals who live with a developmental disability and their caregivers, adjusting to life in isolation and significant changes to routine has been particularly difficult.   

We are now adjusting to a “new normal” where we will continue to practice physical distancing in most environments and those of us who are able to will wear masks and other personal protective equipment as needed.  Things are changing every day as we learn more about COVID-19 and while it is important to stay well informed it is just as important to be aware of how we and those we care for are being impacted.  

ConnectABILITY.ca has compiled a list of resources so that individuals with developmental disabilities and their families can find the support and information that they need.  You are not alone and help is available. 

Please note: if you are experiencing a mental health crisis please contact 911 immediately or present to your nearest emergency department. 

Resources for Children and Youth

  1. Jack.org has created an online hub of COVID-19 youth-focused mental health resources to help students take care of themselves and their peers.
  2. School Mental Health Ontario provides students with resources and guidance around self-care, reaching out for help and maintaining a positive outlook.
  3. Woodview Mental Health and & Autism Services is offering virtual ‘walk-in’ mental health counselling during COVID-19. See the attached flyer for more information.
  4. Kids Help Phone is a 24/7 national support service that provides free professional counselling services to young people through phone, text and live-chat.
  5. Bounce Back is a free, evidence-based cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) program providing guided mental health self-help supports for adults and youth over the age of 15.
  6. AIDE Canada has developed resources and toolkits to support children and youth with autism and intellectual disability deal with stress during this difficult time. 
  7. What’s Up Walk-In provides free virtual mental health counselling to children, youth, young adults and families. 

Resources for Adults, Parents and Families

  1. Health Care Access Research and Developmental Disabilities (HCARDD) offers a variety of free information sheets, webinars, videos and tools to help individuals with an intellectual disability better understand COVID-19 and manage feelings of worry and stress.
  2. Canadian Association for Community Living (CACL) has developed a robust COVID-19 resource page to provide individuals with developmental disabilities and their families with reliable information and resources, including a section on mental health supports.
  3. Autism Ontario has put together a list of mental health resources to help people with autism and their caregivers get through this global pandemic.
  4. Safehaven has developed a Self-Help Corner with resources for staff, parents and families, including fun at-home activities that can help promote positivity and well-being.
  5. Community Living Ontario’s Staying Connected page offers suggested resources to boost health and wellness such as mindfulness apps, fitness videos and a downloadable guide to educate individuals about normal versus excessive worrying.
  6. The Council for Intellectual Disability provides videos, easy read guides, and information sheets to help individuals with an intellectual disability look after their mental health.
  7. Surrey Place has compiled a list of online tools that provide accessible and up-to-date information for individuals with a developmental disability, including tips on reducing anxiety and stress.
  8. Check out Anxiety Canada’s articles, CARD handouts, mobile app and My Anxiety Plan online courses to effectively manage and deal with anxiety as a result of COVID-19.
  9. The Ontario Caregiver Organization offers caregiver tip sheets, multilingual resources and an online peer support group for individuals in a care-giving role.
  10. CAMH provides a variety of mental health resources to help individuals cope with the effects of COVID-19 such as feelings of isolation, stress and anxiety, loss and grief, and stigma and prejudice.
  11. The Candian Mental Health Association has put together some resources and suggestions to help support mental health at this time of uncertainty.
    1. Additionally, CMHA branches are open but offering alternative service delivery, for more information, click here.
    2. To enroll in a free virtual mental health course, click here.
  12. Wellness Together Canada provides free mental health and substance use supports including modules for addressing low mood, worry, substance use, social isolation and relationship issues.
  13. The Mental Health Commission of Canada has developed tip sheets to help individuals cope with COVID-19, including strategies to manage ‘return anxiety’ as the lockdown lifts.

Resources for Seniors

  1. Chatting to Wellness offers free 1-1 chatting sessions over the phone to all seniors, across Canada to help isolated seniors feel connected and reduce stress.
  2. Bob Rumball has developed a series of Mental Health and Wellness videos for deaf seniors with ASL interpretations. 
  3. The Canadian Coalition for Seniors’ Mental Health shares physical distancing activities, virtual visits toolkits, tips for battling anxiety and mental health support lines for Seniors in Canada.

Sotos Syndrome

Fact Sheet

What is Sotos Syndrome?

Sotos syndrome is a rare multisystemic genetic disorder characterized by a typical facial appearance, overgrowth of the body in early life with macrocephaly, and mild to severe intellectual disability.

Sotos Syndrome is an autosomal dominant condition which means that if either one of the parents has Sotos, there is a fifty percent chance that each of their children will inherit the condition. 

In around 90% of children with Sotos Syndrome the cause is a mutation in the NSD1 gene. This gene provides instructions for making a protein that is involved in normal growth and development. The protein affected cannot then function properly and normal growth is disrupted. It is not currently clear how the disruption causes the overgrowth and other complications and research is ongoing.

How is it Manifested?

The following characteristics are present in Sotos Syndrome:

  • A long narrow face with a high forehead
  • Flushed (reddened) cheeks
  • A small pointed chin – large mandible
  • Corners of the eyes point downwards with an abnormal increase between the eyes
  • Large feet/hands- clumsiness and awkward gait
  • Intellectual disability (Autism Spectrum Disorder, Mild Intellectual Disability)
  • Behavioural issues (can include Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, phobias, tantrums, obsessions/compulsions, social development delays)
  • Delays in speech/language – monotone voice, stutter, problems with sound production
  • Delays in motor skill development – weak muscle tone (hypotonia)

Additional characteristics may include:

  • Curvature of the spine (scoliosis)
  • Seizures
  • Heart or kidney defects
  • Hearing loss
  • Problems with vision
  • Some infants with this disorder experience jaundice and poor feeding
  • A small percentage may develop cancer in childhood

Who is affected?

Sotos Syndrome is reported to occur in 1 in 10,000 to 14,000 newborns.

Diagnosis

A clinical diagnosis of Sotos Syndrome may be gained by the presentation of the typical symptoms:

  • Characteristic facial appearance
  • Learning disability
  • Childhood overgrowth
  • Increased head circumference

This suspected diagnosis can be confirmed through a genetic test to check changes in the NSD1 gene.

Treatment

There is no specific course of treatment for Sotos Syndrome. Treatment is usually based on symptoms which have been identified.  Sotos Syndrome is not a life-threatening disorder and individuals may have a normal life expectancy.

Resources

Sotos Syndrome Support Association of Canada

The Sotos Syndrome Support Association of Canada helps to support families by providing them with information by way of handbooks, pamphlets, Internet, public lectures, and discussions, and with emotional support by facilitating discussions with other parents who have been through similar experiences.

1944 Dumfries, Montreal, Quebec, H3P 2R9 Canada
Email: info@sssac.com
Website: http://www.sssac.com

National Organization for Rare Disorders

NORD, along with its more than 300 patient organization members, is committed to the identification, treatment, and cure of rare disorders through programs of education, advocacy, research, and patient services.

https://rarediseases.org/rare-diseases/sotos-syndrome/

Anxiety in Childhood

All children experience some form of anxiety; this is to be expected and can be a response to something positive or negative happening in a child’s life. Feeling anxious can be associated with changes in routines, family dynamics, new experiences or exposure to a traumatic event. Any indication of a child experiencing anxiety requires a supportive and empathetic response to help them manage worries and learn a variety of coping skills.

Working Through Anxiety Together

It is important to identify your child’s feelings and responses to a variety of situations.  Work together with your child to practice new skills when they are calm and during general routines so that they can use those skills when feeling anxious.

  • Watch and learn how your child reacts under stress. Their reaction will tell you what they need.
  • Help your child recognize and label emotions in themselves and others. 
  • Provide space and an opportunity for your child to express emotions without shame.
  • Offer comfort and reassurance quickly when your child is showing anxiousness. Let them know you are there for them and stay close to offer comfort if they choose.
  • Understand your own response to stressful situations. What strategies are you modeling?
  • Find ways to regulate your own emotions to avoid inconsistent responses to situations.
  • It’s important to include family and cultural practices throughout the day, ones that will help your child find a way to ground themselves within their identity.
  • Visit new settings in advance to introduce your child to an upcoming change (e.g., if your child is starting school or a new child care program, visit the physical setting, talk about the changes in advance and on multiple occasions).
  • Warmly welcome and say goodbye to your child when coming or going. Make eye contact, smile and reassure them.
  • Provide engaging, interesting and challenging activities for your child to shift their attention to when feeling anxious.  Ask yourself, “What do they like to do?”
  • Offer a favourite toy or activity to help comfort your child when they are anxious. Spend some time with them at that activity.
  • Slow down and allow flexibility in your routine.  When possible, let your child lead the routine and allow time to complete tasks. If your child is upset, slow the routine down to give them extra time to regulate their feelings. Model calming techniques, such as taking deep breaths, thinking of a quiet place, counting to ten. Practice these activities with your child during calm periods.
  • Prepare your child for transitions using visuals, such as pictures or verbal reminders to give them time to prepare (e.g., “In five minutes we are going to tidy up and get ready to go outside”).
  • Prepare your child before any upcoming changes. You can use tools such as calendars, books or personalized stories to help them understand the change.
  • Use a visual schedule, showing pictures of the daily routine and step-by-step mini-schedules for parts of the day that are more stressful. This will increase predictability of the routine and help your child understand what is happening next.  Model using the visual schedule and make it a fun experience with your child, let them point out what is happening next.
  • Use a visual timeline, such as a calendar to count down the days until the start of an upcoming change.

Additional Tips for School-aged Children

  • Talk about what is happening, plan and brainstorm solutions together.  Be sure to practice this plan during moments of calmness and revisit later, after a stressful situation, to adjust the plan as needed.  
  • Help your child adapt to stressful situations through short exposure and practice. Completely avoiding triggers of anxiety does not allow your child the opportunity to build a toolbox of coping strategies.  With practice, your child can learn to work through their fears and worries.
  • Help your child ‘reframe’ their anxious thoughts. Here is a script that can help:
    • “Name a worry floating around in your mind right now.”
    • “What is the worry telling you?”  What is a fact about this worry? 
    • “Let’s break it down and tell me more about how you feel.” 
    • “How can we take that worry and change it to a positive thought?”
  • Help your child list strategies to use in a moment of anxiety.  Write them down or use pictures to represent the strategies. Here are some examples:
  • deep breathing
  • progressive muscle relaxation – tense a group of muscles and then relax them, moving up from the toes to the top of the body
  • squeeze a stress ball
  • journal ways to identify worries and reframe thoughts
  • talk about worries with a trusted adult

Remember…

Children, like adults, need time to adjust to new people, situations and experiences. Thoughtful and supportive responses on the part of the adults in a child’s life can help them learn how to approach fears and manage their anxiety.

Helping your child respond positively to new and potentially stressful situations supports healthy emotional development. All children are unique and have different ways of managing. What is tolerable to other children may not be for your child. It’s important to understand the cause of the anxiety and the ways to support them. Caregivers, family members and early learning educators share a role in making children feel safe and secure.

If your child has a sudden change in behaviour such as limited appetite, disruptive sleep patterns or is no longer interested in favourite activities, contact your child’s family doctor for additional resources and support.


References

Beidel, D. C., & Turner, S.M. (2005). Childhood anxiety disorders: A guide and treatment. New York: Routledge.

Cooper, H. (2020, March 05). Helping Children and Teens Cope with Anxiety About COVID-19. Retrieved June 11, 2020.

Dym Bartlett, J., Griffin, J., & Thomson, D. (2020, March 19). Resources for Supporting Children’s Emotional Well-being during the COVID-19 Pandemic. Retrieved June 11, 2020.

Hurley, K. (2018). Helping Kids with Anxiety: Strategies to Help Anxious Children. Retrieved June 11, 2020.

Illinois Early Learning Project, (2005).  Please don’t go: Separation Anxiety and Children. Retrieved June 11, 2020

Mount Pleasant Family Centre Society. (2020, April 22). Early Childhood Development  in a Time of Pandemic. Retrieved June 11, 2020.

Virtual Summer Camps 

As we approach Summer 2020, it is important to recognize that children and adults will have different experiences understanding physical distancing and other protocols in place due to COVID-19. Although attending traditional summer camps may not be possible this year, there are alternatives. Many classrooms and businesses are offering virtual services including summer camps. Below is a list of virtual summer camp options. Please note, some camps have a registration fee.

Shadow Lake Camp

Campers will enjoy a wide variety of virtual activities. Each week of virtual camp follows a theme and the activities/crafts are geared to the weeks theme!

Virtual Camp will consist of a combination of large “all camp” activities as well as smaller “Cabin” activities. This enables the campers to have opportunities to interact in large and small groups and with different staff and campers each day/week! Much of the “live” feed will be streaming directly from our actual camp so participants will feel more connected, engaged, and involved. They will also receive a camp kit worth over $50 including tuck treats every day, craft supplies, various activities to do while at home, or with the camp staff through Zoom and a camp shirt! (additional camp kits can be purchased if there are multiple people in the household).

Virtual Camp will be offered Monday to Friday each week beginning June 29, 2020. Morning sessions will run from 10:00am-12:00pm and afternoon sessions will run from 2:00- 4:00pm, (except for Fridays, which will finish by noon). Mid-day breaks will be complemented by Facebook Live activities. 

Cost: $300 per week

Registration: please visit MyCommunityHub.ca. Follow this link or search with registration number: 12412. For more information contact Shadow Lake staff at shadowlake.office@cltoronto.ca or at 905-640-6432.

Kerry’s Place – Camp Connection

Children and youth will have the opportunity to develop skills related to social interaction, maintaining friendships, and learning about others through fun activities that strengthen turn-taking and sharing skills as well as their imagination. 

The camps will be facilitated by the Kerry’s Place Community Services team and will take place on Zoom, an online platform.

Virtual camp will be offered Monday through Friday beginning July 6, 2020. 

9:30am-3:30 pm in one-hour intervals 

Families will be able to express their interest beginning June 10, 2020.

Cost: Free

Registration: https://www.kerrysplace.org/campconnection/

Belwood Lodge and Camps

Live programming will include social time, games, theme days, dances, coffee houses and performances, pageants, dances and more!   Additionally, pre-recorded videos are available that explore the animals and the nature of camp.

June 1st to August 29th, 2020 daily activities online Monday to Saturday. 

Cost: Free

Registration: https://www.belwoodlodgeandcamp.com/virtual-camp

The Boys & Girls Clubs

The Boys & Girls Clubs have partnered with Jays Care to offer a virtual summer camp. Registering for this camp will include weekly activity kits delivered to you, interactive programming and great resources for the whole family!

Camps will run in week-long sessions beginning on June 29 and each session will be 45 minutes to 1 hour long.

Cost: Free

To register, go to https://www.wsncc.org and click “Register Now” to select the week you would like to attend this virtual camp experience! If you have any questions about the camp or regarding registration, please email Northstaff@wsncc.org or call 416-500-9268 for more details.

STEM Camp

Offers virtual camps for gamers and those interested in website building and coding. From website design to Minecraft camp, these sessions will keep young minds busy and engaged.

Cost: $89 per week

Registration: https://stemcamp.ca/virtual-stem-camp/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIgdXBkfH36QIVkobACh0KxgErEAAYAyAAEgJEZPD_BwE

Easter Seals

Through interactive, fun, and social online activities and programs, campers of all ages and diverse abilities learn with trained counselors through role-playing game adventures, crafts, drawing, cooking and more.

Through live video streaming, counsellors lead discussions, offer mentorship, and cheer on campers during activities.

Cost: $75 per week

Registration: https://www.eastersealsbcy.ca/virtual-summer-camp/

Great Big Theatre Company

Innovative Online Summer Drama Camp with a variety of fun and interactive activities for kids and young people age 6-14 years. Participants will engage in collaborative and engaging drama games, improvisations, art projects, plays and scenes, along with lots of music, mixed in with fun movement activities and dance parties.

A camp week consists of two 75-minute participatory sessions each day, Monday to Friday, in which coaches will share movement games as well as storytelling and playwriting along with music, poems and fun raps.

Cost: $85 per week

Registration: https://www.gbtc.com/virtual-day-camps.php?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIl5PVxNT66QIVydSzCh1C4ArtEAAYASABEgLRcfD_BwE

McMichael ArtVenture Summer Club

McMichael’s art instructors have developed a fun and action-packed curriculum of virtual programming for children aged 6 to 12 years that includes artmaking activities, guided viewing of iconic gallery artworks and creative exercises that will nurture creative spirit and allow them to socialize with their peers in a safe online environment. 

Camps will run in week-long sessions beginning on July 6. 

3-hour daily sessions 

Cost (5-day sessions): $225 per week

Member discounts are available

Registration: https://mcmichael.com/artventure-summer-club/


Available Financial Support 

One to One Summer Support Worker Reimbursement Fund

Do you need support for your child with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) this summer? The 2020 One-to-One Summer Support Worker Reimbursement Fund is available to Ontario families of children or youth with ASD who retain the services of a one-to-one support worker for their child as follows:

 Eligible Services:

  • Respite services to support caregivers during the day, evening or weekend, at home or elsewhere (for example supervision of the child or youth, help with daily living activities or taking child out for an activity); and/or
  • Fees for online or in-person recreational and cultural activities and camp programs that help to promote independence and develop social, communication and life skills (for example sports, arts and music programs, museums, and camps).

Note that these eligible expenses are consistent with OAP eligible expenses. Please click here to apply and for more information: https://www.autismontario.com/camp

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder

Fact Sheet

What is Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder?

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurobiological condition that is characterized by three main symptoms: inattention, hyperactivity and impulsivity.  It is the most prevalent childhood psychiatric disorder in Canada.  ADHD is not a learning disability but a person with ADHD can have an accompanying learning disability.  Children with ADHD are often labeled as having behaviour problems rather than a medical problem. 

Although it’s not clear what causes ADHD neurological (brain structure and functioning), genetic, and environmental factors play a role.  It is a chronic disorder that persists across the lifespan although symptoms can change over time. Teens may grow out of their hyperactivity or learn to channel it into appropriate physical activities while symptoms of inattention may increase in adulthood.

How is it Manifested?

ADHD effects mood regulation and executive functioning which is responsible for problem solving, organizing and planning things out.  This combination can impact the ability of a child with ADHD to self-regulate.  

Although hyperactivity is one of the main symptoms of ADHD some children may not demonstrate hyperactivity and may appear to lack energy and seem quiet and reserved.  While lack of focus and difficulty attending to task is another symptom of ADHD, when engaged in high interest activities children with ADHD can become hyper focused and may have difficulty moving on from the activity. 

Children with ADHD can have difficulty picking up on the social cues of others and may behave in socially inappropriate ways appearing to act without thinking.  They may interrupt other’s conversations or activities and can have difficulty listening or waiting for a turn in a conversation. 

Children with ADHD can have a short attention span which can lead to difficulty paying attention to long instructions or teaching sessions.  They are likely to daydream or begin to move and fidget when they are expected to sit quietly for long periods. 

Children with ADHD can experience mental health challenges such as anxiety or depression.  Low self-esteem is also a concern as some of the behaviours associated with ADHD can result in strained relationships with educators, and caregivers as well as isolation from peers and siblings.  

Who is Affected?

Boys are up to three times more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD than girls, but this can be attributed to the fact that girls are more prone to inattentive type ADHD which is marked by disorganized and unfocused behaviour.  Impulsiveness in girls with ADHD may be expressed as excessive talking rather than the disruptive, impulsive physical behaviours typically seen in boys.  Because symptoms appear so differently between boys and girls, girls usually go undiagnosed until later in adolescence or even adulthood. 

The general prevalence of ADHD is estimated at between 5-9% for children and adolescents, however, because girls are typically diagnosed so much later this statistic is likely low.  Up to approximately half of children diagnosed with ADHD also have another neurological disorder such as autism or mental health condition such as anxiety or depression.

How is ADHD Diagnosed or Detected?

The first step in diagnosing ADHD is for the family to discuss their concerns with their family doctor or pediatrician.  If the doctor does not have specific training regarding ADHD they will make a referral to a medical professional that is able to assess the child.  A diagnosis is made based on family history, the professional’s observations of the child and questionnaires filled out by the family and the child’s teachers.

ADHD is categorized into one of three categories, depending on the presence or absence the three core symptoms: inattention, hyperactivity and impulsivity.

  • Predominantly inattentive presentation (used to be referred to as ADD)
  • Predominantly hyperactive-impulsive presentation (very rare)
  • Combined presentation (most prevalent)

ADHD can be diagnosed in children as early as age four however, some professionals may hesitate to provide a diagnosis at such a young age. 

Resources 

The Centre for ADHD Awareness Canada 

The CADDAC website is a comprehensive source of information about ADHD.  They are a “Canadian national charitable organization dedicated to improving the lives of those with ADHD through ADHD awareness, education and advocacy.” https://caddac.ca/adhd/

They provide a series of 3 videos explaining ADHD to children: Me and My ADHD: A series of animated videos helping children understand ADHD

Regroupment Des Associations Panda Du Québec

French language ADHD information and resources.  https://www.associationpanda.qc.ca/

ADHD & You

A comprehensive website with downloadable stories, practical tips and resources designed for parents of children with ADHD as well as teens and adults who have ADHD.   http://www.adhdandyou.ca/

References 

The content contained in this document is for general information purposes. It is not the intention to diagnose or treat a child.

Anti-Bullying: Session 6

 It’s Cool to Care (Week Six)

  1. Hello Song
  2. Review visual schedule/rules
  3. Review Kids Bill of Rights
  4. Puppet show: Script of scenario “Caring is Cool” with the puppets:
    • Act out two scenarios with puppets
    • Feedback from kids on puppets’ actions in between scenarios; the first scenario has someone not telling when a child is bullied, the second scenario shows puppet telling the teacher when a child is bullied, (discuss which scenario is right)
    • Skill Development:
      • if you are being bullied
      • tell an adult right away
      • if someone else is being bulled
      • tell an adult right away
      • remember no one deserves to be bullied
  5. Read “I Care About Others” and/or “I’m a Good Friend”
  6. Games: Motorboat, Paper Punch/Basket Ball Throw, Ring around the Rosie”
  7. Goodbye Song

Caring is Cool

Inappropriate Way:
[Frankie is talking to Zawar when Daisy approaches.]
Daisy [pushes Zawar saying:] “Move and get out of my way dummy” [and she pushes Zawar again.]
Zawar [starts to cry:] “Stop pushing me”.
Daisy [pushes Zawar again and says:] “Oh yeah, make me.” [Zawar cries again.]
Frankie [says to himself:] “I don’t know what to do, I’m out of here” and runs away.

Appropriate Way:
[Frankie is talking to Zawar when Daisy approaches.]
Daisy [pushes Zawar saying:] “Move and get out of my way dummy” [and she pushes Zawar again.]
Zawar starts to cry: “Stop pushing me”.
Daisy [pushes Zawar again and says:]Oh yeah, make me.”
Frankie: “Stop it Daisy” [and calls the teacher:] “Mrs.Garcia, Daisy is hurting Zawar”

Anti-Bullying: Session 5

What to do if You’re Bullied (Week Five)

  1. Hello Song
  2. Review visual schedule/rules
  3. Review Kids’ Bill of Rights
  4. Puppet show: Script of “What to do if You’re Bullied”
    • Act out two scenarios with puppets
    • Feedback from kids on puppets’ actions in between scenarios; first scenario shows puppet telling an adult when bullied, the second scenario has someone not telling (discuss which scenario is right)
    • Skill Development:
      • if you are being bullied say “stop”
      • tell an adult right away
      • remember no one deserves to be bullied
  5. Hot Potato
  6. Read from “Bye-Bye Bully”
  7. Game:  Anti-Bullying Strategies Fishing Game
  8. Hurray Song

What to Do if You’re Bullied

Inappropriate Way:
[Daisy is busy looking at a book when Frankie approaches.]
Frankie: “What a dumb book, give it to me, I want it”
[Daisy tries to ignore Frankie.]
Frankie [pushes Daisy, grabs the book and throws it away]: “I said give it to me, you better listen from now on and don’t tell anyone” 
Daisy [begins to cry]: “Okay, Frankie, whatever you say.”

Appropriate Way:
[Daisy is busy looking at a book when Frankie approaches.]
Frankie: “What a dumb book, give it to me, I want it”
[Daisy tries to ignore Frankie]
Frankie [pushes Daisy, grabs the book and throws it away]: “I said give it to me, you better listen from now on and don’t tell anyone” 
Daisy [begins to cry and says:] “Stop it.” [Daisy goes towards her teacher:] “Mr. Koala, Frankie took my book and he pushed me.”

Anti-Bullying: Session 4

Telling vs. Tattling? (Week Four)

  1. Hello Song
  2. Review visual schedule/rules
  3. Review Kids’ Bill of Rights
  4. Puppet show: Script of scenario “Telling vs. Tattling” with the puppets:
    • Act out two scenarios with puppets
    • Feedback from kids on puppets’ actions in between scenarios; first scenario shows puppet tattling to get someone in trouble, the second scenario has someone telling to get someone out of trouble 
    • Skill Development:
      • telling is when you tell an adult to get someone out of trouble
      • tattling is when you tell an adult to get someone in trouble 
  5. Read Story of “Telling is o.k.” 
  6. Games: One Potato, Motorboat, Silly Bones, We are Special Chant
  7. Goodbye Song

Telling vs. Tattling?

Inappropriate Way:
Frankie [is scribbling on a paper while the teacher is saying “everyone draw a flower”]
Daisy [looks over and sees Frankie scribbling and says:] “Teacher, Frankie is just scribbling, he is not drawing a flower”

Appropriate Way:
[Frankie is busy drawing when Daisy approaches.]
Daisy: “Give me that paper, that’s an ugly picture Frankie”
[Frankie tries to ignore Daisy.]
Daisy [pushes Frankie, grabs the paper and crumples it up]: “I said give it to me, you better listen from now on” [Daisy pushes Frankie again]
Frankie [begins to cry and says:]Stop it”
Zawar [who is watching this goes to get a teacher:] “Teacher, Daisy is hurting Frankie”