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How to Facilitate a Positive and Safe Play Space and Reduce Chaos

Introduction:

As one author stated: “All children benefit from opportunities for healthy development. For that reason, high quality child care environments become important for children with and without disabilities.”

Here are some suggestions to use as a guide to support a positive and safe play space and help reduce chaos.

Room Set–up

Room set up should be well defined.

  • choose toys and other play items with care.
  • keep in mind the children’s age, interests, and skill level
  • activities should be set up for small groups or small ratios at a time
  • limit the number of children to an activity
  • have pictures of activity areas, pictures of the children presently in the activity area or display a number system of how many children can be in a specific play or activity area
  • scan the play areas regularly, to assess for impending chaos or perhaps safety concerns
  • label bins by placing pictures of the actual objects that go into those bins. A number system on the bins, as well as corresponding number on the shelves where the bins will go can be helpful in maintaining order and with tidy up
  • teach children to tidy up an activity such as a toy, once they’re finished playing with it. This teaches children to put things away and to help maintain a play-safe environment
  • encourage children to remain with an activity or in a play area for a reasonable given time. This allows for the enhancement of purposeful play, peer interaction, and to remain focused

Toys and Props

Remember to frequently check play objects and toys for missing parts or broken pieces. This reduces the child’s frustration in not having the correct parts of a toy to play with and also reduces the possibility of getting hurt by a broken toy or protruding part of the toy or object.

Sensory Materials

Most children enjoy playing with sensory materials such as water, sand or playdough. Remember to limit the number of children to these play areas and provide the necessary props or tools needed for these activities.

Book Time

Book time is another wonderful learning experience for all children.

  • select an appropriate area in the room that’s reasonably quiet and comfortable
  • select books that are appropriate for the age group, developmental levels of the children and diverse in culture
  • check to see that the books are not missing pages or in very bad shape. If that’s the case, it might be helpful to replace those books with ones in better condition

Circle Time or Small Group Time

Circle time or small group time is another activity to share experiences, skills, and feelings with one another. Children should enjoy themselves, enjoy meeting together to sing and make up songs, play musical instruments, move to music, play games and discuss upcoming events.

  • promote a cheerful and stimulating environment for circle time; be animated
  • circle time or small group time should also be short and fun
  • consider your props such as puppets, musical instruments, songs and nursery rhymes and books
  • incorporate gross motor activities into circle time, to promote learning about body and self–image
  • choose stories that appeal to children’s sense of adventure and imagination

Dramatic Play Area

The dramatic play area can be a wonderful place to imitate peer actions, enhance social awareness, and provide for spontaneity. The dramatic play area provides opportunities across all developmental areas: fine and gross motor skills, social skills, speech and language skills, cognitive development and self-help skills.

  • remember this area needs supervision as well
  • be there to support and guide children through these learning experiences. At the same time know when to withdraw and allow the children to further explore on their own
  • select a variety of props such as clothing and other dressing items, things found in the kitchen and in the grocery store, dolls, puppets, cultural items
  • minimize on clutter: provide hooks to hang clothing items and hats; shelves to place items in bins so that the children can tidy up when it’s time to

Creative Area

The creative area provides for a sense of achievement, confidence and pride.

  • include a variety of materials; different sizes, shapes, textures and colours; paintbrushes, sponges, feathers, crayons and markers, scissors
  • remember to introduce materials gradually
  • prepare your materials in advance – this allows time for pre-cut shapes, and to check on durability of crayons/markers/paint brushes
  • avoid doing the work for the child
  • keep activities short and simple
  • remember: process is more important than product

Fun Language Activities

Fish Activity

Goals for this activity include:

  • turn-taking
  • joint attention
  • eye-hand coordination
  • increase expressive and receptive language (comprehension)

Materials Needed:

  • pre-cut fish shape cards from construction paper
  • have pictures or flash cards that are of interest to your child eg. food items, transportation, toys etc.
  • using a paper clip, place the pictures/flash cards on the fish
  • you could either purchase a miniature plastic fishing rod (from your local dollar store) or make one by attaching a magnet to a string and tying the string around a pole, cardboard, hanger, etc.

How to Play:

  • Once all fish cards are assembled, turn them upside down and encourage your child to catch a fish one at a time using the fishing rod (hand over hand assistance may be necessary especially, in the beginning). Once s/he catches and turns the fish over, label the picture that your child has caught and encourage him/her to make a sound or even repeat the word.
  • Remember, be consistent and use the same pictures for a while or until your child appears to understand them and /or independently label them.

Note – if you are working on articulation or specific sounds with your child, find picture cards or flash cards that have that sound in the word. For example, if your child is having a difficult time pronouncing the letter \”d\” make sure you focus on d words such as dog, duck, doll, dig, etc. It is not necessary that the whole word is pronounced appropriately especially, long words such as dinosaur. Focus on the sound you are working on otherwise your expectations for your child may be too high and the activity may no longer be positive and fun!

Bowling Activity

Goals for this Activity Include:

  • turn-taking
  • eye-hand coordination
  • increase fine and gross motor skills
  • increase expressive and receptive language (comprehension)

Materials Needed:

  • 6-8 empty plastic water bottles or a plastic bowling kit from your local dollar store
  • a medium sized plastic ball from your local dollar store
  • 6-8 labelled picture cards

How to Play:

  • Use the empty plastic bottles or the actual bowling pins and tape cards to the bottoms of them. If you don’t have any tape just turn the cards upside down and place the bottles or pins on top. Provide your child with a ball and encourage him/her to knock down the bowling pins. Once they are down, encourage your child to look under the bottles or turn the cards over and tell you what the picture is. Remember to use functional words that your child needs to learn or focus on specific sounds that s/he needs to practice. Taking turns bowling is a good way to enhance your child’s social communication skills as this will
    prepare him/her for school, day care and to take turns with peers. Children enjoy this activity and it assists them in maintaining focus, learning language, and socialization skills by just having fun.

Steps Towards Toileting Independence

Children develop a sense of independence and self-esteem when they are able to care for their own toileting needs. Although toilet training can be challenging at times, remember that each step your child achieves will bring him closer to the goal of toileting independence.

Before you begin the formal process of toilet training your child, think about the following signs of toileting:

  • Is your child’s diaper dry for at least two hours at a time?
  • Does your child have an interest in the toilet? (e.g., flushing)
  • Does your child indicate verbally, or through the use of signals that his diaper is soiled and he wants it changed?
  • Does your child sit on the toilet with his clothes on?
  • Does your child show the same signals with other care providers?

If you feel that your child is showing a few signs that he is ready to begin toilet training, here are a few tips to help you prepare for this important step and make it successful for you and your child:

STEP 1: PREPARATION

  • Decide on a start date and be sure to discuss your plan to toilet train your child with other caregivers. You can also let your child know about the “big day” by marking it on a calendar.
  • Build a positive association with the bathroom as you count down to your start date. You can do this by playing music or playing with fun toys in the bathroom. You can even decorate the bathroom with your child’s artwork, stickers, or toys of your child’s favourite TV character.
  • Move all diapering and toilet related dressing to the bathroom. This helps your child associate elimination with the bathroom, which is now a fun environment.
  • Get a toilet ring that can be placed on top of the toilet seat. It is important to make sure that your child is comfortable and supported when sitting on the toilet.
  • Although you may want to consider using a potty, we strongly recommend that training starts on the toilet. This eliminates extra teaching time down the road when moving from the potty to the toilet.
  • Get a step-stool that can be used to support your child’s feet while sitting on the toilet. His hips, knees and feet should be at a 90 degree angle for maximum support. This ensures that your child’s leg muscles are relaxed, which makes it easier to urinate or have a bowel movement in the toilet. The step-stool can also be used to access the sink for hand washing.
  • You will also need a supply of cloth underwear for your child to wear when the start date arrives. If possible, involve your child in purchasing the new underwear.
  • Think of some highly preferred items that you can use to reward your child for urinating or having a bowel movement on the toilet. Favourite food items such as candies, chips and cookies are recommended because they can be delivered in small quantities and are consumed quickly. If you are using a food treat, try not to let your child see the whole bag, or else he may keep asking for more.
  • Review the data collection sheet and the toileting steps. Keeping track of your child’s progress will help you to determine when to fade your assistance, and to identify areas that may need extra teaching. (See STEP 5 for more details)

STEP 2: THE FIRST DAY

  • Dress your child in pants that are easy to push down and pull up, or in underwear only.
  • Encourage your child to drink lots of liquids. Increasing the amount of fluids your child consumes will mean more trips to the washroom. This approach will allow your child to practice sitting on the toilet and have an opportunity to experience success. Remember to bring the data sheets and a pen into the bathroom so that you can easily fill in the information after each toilet trip. The data is very important as it allows you to track your child’s progress. (See Part 5 for further information)

STEP 3: THE TOILET TRAINING STEPS

  • Initiate a toilet trip every 45 minutes OR when your child shows clear signs of needing to go. This will help your child to associate the “gotta-go” feeling with going to the toilet.
  • It is important to follow the same sequence for every trip to the toilet you initiate. This helps your get child become familiar with the routine and expectations.
    1. Approach your child and say, “It’s time to go pee.” (or whatever phrase you have decided to use).
    2. Then, walk to the bathroom with him.
    3. Once you are there, have him pull down his pants and underwear, and sit on the toilet.
    4. Your child should sit on the toilet for at least 2 minutes (or longer, if he seems comfortable).
    5. Give him some toys, books, or other interesting materials to keep him relaxed while he sits.
    6. If your child is successful on the toilet, immediately show him that you’re proud by giving him a reward and praising him. Then continue with steps 6 through 10.

    7. Wipe, if necessary.
    8. Have your child stand up and flush the toilet.
    9. Have him pull his underwear and pants up.
    10. Have your child wash and dry his hands.
    11. Return to the previous activity or a new one.
    12. If your child is not successful after 2 minutes or so, let him know that he can try again later. End the toilet trip and continuing with steps 8 through 10.

  • Let’s take a look at the sequence that we recommend you follow:

  • Try to avoid giving verbal instructions during toilet training as your child may become overly dependent on you to tell him what to do. In general, physical help coming from behind, without verbal instructions closely mimics how it will feel for him to do it by himself.

STEP 4: ADVANCED TOILETING SKILLS

Once your child is consistently successful during the day, and only having a few accidents, you can then attempt night time toileting. There are a few tips to keep in mind when you decide to tackle night time toileting:

  • Limit your child’s liquid intake in the evenings and try to avoid giving fluids for 2-3 hours before bedtime.
  • Have a regular time for going to bed.
  • Have a consistent bed time routine, which includes toileting just before going to bed.
  • Take your child to the toilet as soon as he wakes up in the morning.

Also, keep in mind that bowel control generally emerges later than bladder control. Expect that your child will begin to experience controlled bowel success after an urination routine has been established.

STEP 5: DATA COLLECTION

The Toileting Independence Data Sheet includes all of the steps involved in toilet training. The sheets will help you keep track of your child’s progress during this process and also help you figure out if your child may need more (or less) help. Take a look at the “Toileting Independence Data Sheet” for step-by-step instructions on completing the form.

Translated Tip sheets

Steps Towards Toileting Independence

Brushing Teeth Sequence

Flip Flop Over The Top

Bedtime Routines

Mealtime Routines

Putting Pants On Sequence

Snack Time Sequence

Mealtime Accomodations

Understanding How and Why Your Child Communicates

Toilet Training Sequence

Tying Shoelaces Sequence

Washing My Hands Sequence

Winter Dressing Sequence

Communication Posters

Using Visual Sequences to Teach Self-Care Skills

Communicative Functions and Means Checklist (Tip sheet and Form)

Everyday Opportunities to Practice Turn Taking

Picture Exchange Communication System

The Diagnosis of Pervasive Developmental Disorder

Preschool Programming Resource Manual

Some Specific Activities for Communication Development

Alternative Communication Methods

Communication Development

Completion Toys

Developing Attention Span

Easing The Transition to School: What the Family can do

First/Then

General Programming Strategies for a Child with PDD

Making Choices

Mid Ear Infections in the Preschooler

Positive Guidance

Receptive/Expressive Language

Social Communication

General Programming Strategies, Structuring

Stuttering

Toilet Training

Transitioning Your Child to School

What to do if You Can’t Understand Your Child