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Relationship Group

The Relationship Group is for self advocates with a Developmental disability to build safe and strong relationships. We work on safety, respect and self esteem. 

Upcoming meetings

  • February 14, Valen-friends
  • February 26, Monthly chat
  • March 26, Monthly chat
  • March 31 & April 7, Steps to Building and Growing Relationships

For more information or if you would like the link to attend any of our meetings please contact us.

Past presentations

Relationship Stories

Meet a group of self advocates and hear their stories of what relationships mean to them. Learn more

Relationship Group videos

Tools for Teaching about Relationships and Sexuality

Road to Relationship Poker Game

A fun and interactive card game that has characteristics/quality of a person which creates friendly and constructive debates that can benefit participants and open their minds to new ideas and feelings.

Learn all about it, and watch some examples of play

Empowering your Sex-Esteem

By exploring the language related to sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression


Supporting healthy relationships for all: ALL means ALL

There has been a long-standing misconception about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transsexual, transgender, queer, questioning, two spirited + (LGBTTQQ2S+) relationships not being “a real relationship” and instead being deviant. This is simply not true. https://publications.ici.umn.edu/frontline-initiative/16-1/lgbtq-community-disabilties

Autism & 90-90-90: Reaching for the Goal

Presenting preliminary findings on ACT’s “ASD & HIV Prevention Needs Assessment” survey and explaining the impact the autism spectrum has on negotiating safer sex, accessing services, and community connection.

Sexuality, Relationships, Rights and Advocacy

Municipal or Regional Public Health departments often will come in to present sexuality material to groups or schools. If you do not feel comfortable presenting some of the information contact your local Public Health department. Here is a list of workshops offered by Toronto Public Health. List of Public Health workshops

The Relationship Work Group

Personal statements about relationships

Relationships are important...

Facing challenges

How do you make friends?

My girlfriend

Spending time together

Relationship Building: what parents can do

Relationship Building: what agencies can do

Using social media to find friends

Final words

I just might

To my mama

Guiding principals: Romeo

Lost and Now I’m Found: exploring trans identity, belonging and family dynamics

A poem about being in love

Other related content

Articles

Links

iBelong

Mindfulness

Professional Fatigue: Surviving the Front Lines!
Shared Learning presentation
Presented by: Sue Hutton, Community Living Toronto

Play – Flash version

Play – HTML5 version (Tablets)

Meditations

Becoming Present Exactly As We Are

Audio MP3

5 Touchstone Techniques

Audio MP3

Related PDFs

Stress-related Health

Professional Fatigue: Surviving the Front Lines!

Shared Learning presentation
Presented by: Angie Gonzales, RN MN Health Care Facilitator, Toronto Network of Specialized Care, Surrey Place Centre

Play – Flash version

Play – HTML5 version (Tablets)

Family (Support) Groups

This is a list of Family Support groups operating in Ontario. If you would like to be added to this list or to report any changes please contact us at support@connectability.ca

Adult Sibling Support Group

In association with: Extend-A-Family https://www.extendafamily.ca/family-support-groups
Description: An opportunity for adult siblings (ages 18 and up) to get together, share, connect, and support one another through sharing stories, information, and conversations.
Location: Virtual via Zoom, please RSVP with facilitator
Meetings: One evening a month from September – June, please contact the facilitator for the exact dates and times
Contact: Jessica Janes, jj@extendafamily.ca 647-220-9412

Chinese Speaking Family Support Group

In association with: Spirit of Life
Description: A family network supporting Cantonese and Mandarin speaking individuals with families who have a son or daughter with a developmental disability in the Chinese community in the GTA.
Location: Zoom Meeting RSVP contact to be invited
Meetings: 4th Friday of each month
Contact: 905-474-9500 info@solhc.ca

Dad’s Group

In association with: Extend-A-Family https://www.extendafamily.ca/family-support-groups
Description: A gathering for Dads who have children (of any age) with a developmental disability. This informal time is designed for people to share, be together, connect and support one another.
Location: Virtual and in-person TBA
Meetings: Last Tuesday of each month from September – June from 7:00-9:00 p.m.
Contact: Salvatore Rocchese, sr@extendafamily.ca, 416-530-0272

Dads Supporting Dads

In association with: Community Living Toronto
Description: Join the group to: Meet other fathers facing similar experiences, Share stories, tips, and support in a welcoming environment, Be part of a community that understands and uplifts each other.
Location: Virtual and in-person TBD
Meetings: TBD based on members availability
Contact: Tom Gaspar, tom.gaspar@cltoronto.ca, 437-688-1139

Danforth Parent Support Group

UPDATE: Combined with Parent Share until further notice
In association with: Woodgreen Community Services
Description: Get people together to talk about what their kids are doing when school ends.
Location: Woodgreen Community Centre – 815 Danforth (map)
Meetings: once a month from January – June
Contact: Bonnie Heath, bheath@woodgreen.org, 416-645-6000 ext. 1311

DANI (developing and nurturing independence)

UPDATE: Meetings have been postponed until further notice.
Description: Offers parent information sessions on various topics; housing / transition/ employment/ financial planning / medical updates
Location: 501 Clark Ave West, Thornhill, Ontario, L4J 4E5,
Meetings: held once every three months, typically on a Monday evening @ 7:30 pm
Contact: Susie Sokol
Contact: ssokol@dani-toronto.com or call 905-889-3264 ext. 226

Downtown Family Support Group

In association with: Gifted People Services and Community Matters Toronto
Description: Parent Support Group for parents of teens and adults with developmental disability. Includes speakers, discuss issues of concern to the group members.
Location: Online through Zoom, must RSVP
Meetings: 2nd Saturday every month from 1pm to 4pm
Contact: Dianna Jiang, info@giftedpeople.ca, 647-886-9062

Evening Parent Group

In association with: Extend-A-Family https://www.extendafamily.ca/family-support-groups
Description: A gathering of parents and guardians of children with disabilities. Our time together is an opportunity to connect with others, share resources and gain perspectives.
When: Second Thursday of each month, evenings 7:00-8:30 p.m.
Where: Virtual via Zoom, please RSVP
Contact: Antonia Heer, ah@extendafamily.ca, 647-292-5144

Everyday Families

In Association with: Miles Nadel JCC
Description: A monthly peer support program forparents and caregivers of youth andyoung adults with intellectual/developmental disabilities to shareand access educational and advocacyresources from peers and expert guestspeakers from the community.
When: Monthly on Thursdays: Sept 14, Oct 12, Nov 9, Dec 7, 7pm – 9pm
Contact: everydayfamilies@mnjcc.org

Family Link

In association with: Community Living Toronto (formerly Pilot Parents)
Description: Bringing families together to offer friendship and a network of support who all share the unique challenges and experiences of parenting a child with a disability
Location: On-line at Connected Families, and various locations and times (See Family Link Toronto for more details)
Meetings: Various locations and times
Contact: Sarah Winter swinter@cltoronto.ca 647-968-6214
More Information: Flyer

Families Connect Group

In association with: CAMH
Description: The parent support group provides a safe space for families and caregivers to connect around shared experiences and decrease the isolation and stigma associated with caring for a loved one with an intellectual disability and Autism Spectrum Disorder. Topics include managing stress with self-care, recognizing and addressing burnout, system navigation and connection with supportive resources. There will be an opportunity for an individual session with an Adult Neurodevelopmental Social Worker.
Location: Online
Meetings: Wednesdays – October 1 – November 8, 2023
Contact: Atif.Khan@camh.ca and rhea.olocoloc@camh.ca
More Information: Flyer

FASD Family Support Group

UPDATE: Postponed until further notice
In association with: FASworld Canada
Description: Mutual support for families who have a son or daughter (often adopted) with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD). We work with families with children of all ages but most families reach out for help when the children are teens and acting out behaviour starts.
Location: Hospital for Sick Children (map)
Meetings: 9 x /year from Sept-June 3rd Sat of each month from 10-12
Contact: Bryan Philcox 416-264-8000 or Michelle Todorow 416-995-3689 drmtodorow@gmail.com

Group for parents of Children with Autism

In association with: Autism Ontario
Description: Looking for a way to connect with other families? Join Autism Ontario Service Navigators and other family members in an online support group forum. Our Service Navigators will facilitate theme-based, guided conversation on timely topics. This is a great way to connect with other families and brainstorm ideas on different supports and services in your area.
Location: Visit https://www.autismontario.com/events to find a variety of virtual events offered.
Meetings: Dates and times vary, check website to confirm and RSVP
Contact: Karie Evelyn, karie@autismontario.com, 416-246-9592 ext.340

Hand Over Hand: Parent Support Group

UPDATE: Postponed until further notice
Description: The Hand Over Hand Parent Support Group aims to create a community of parents, welcome new parents, and establish a support circle for those who have children with a developmental disability. Regularly, we provide a venue to discuss and share resources with other parents on a multitude of topics. We also provide events which are fun and relaxing for parents to have a break and do something that is out of the ordinary routine! Hand Over Hand is proudly able to provide free child care service for Social Group members (15-30 years old) while Parent Support Group meetings take place.
Location: York Region (exact location varies from month to month depending on activity)
Meetings: Monthly, weekend afternoons, typically between 2-4pm
Contact: Yuen Ngo, parents@handoverhand.ca

Inclusive Education Parent Network

In association with: Extend-A-Family https://www.extendafamily.ca/family-support-groups
Description: A space for families who desire and are striving for inclusion in regular education classroom settings for their child with a disability. Providing opportunities to learn, listen and share strategies; broaden our knowledge and understanding of inclusive education, and hear first hand stories of resilience and success. Relevant topics of mutual interest will be explored.
Location: Virtual via Zoom, please RSVP with the facilitator
Meetings: First Tuesday of the month September – June, 6:30 – 8:00 p.m. (subject to change)
Contact: Kim Southern-Paulsen, ksp@extendafamily.ca, 416-757-2780 | Marlene Solano, ms@extendafamily.ca, 416-824-4252

“It takes a Village” Black Parent Support Group

Description: A group for Black caregivers of children or adults with intellectual or developmental disabilities
Location: via ZOOM through your phone; tablet; laptop; or other online device.
Meetings: Monthly every 2nd & 4th Tuesday of the month
Contact: Clovis or Sherron Grant, BPSGroup2020@gmail.com

Life with Loss

In association with: Montage Support Services
Description: A group comprised of adult family members who have lost a loved one, someone close to them. We come together in a non-judgmental forum to walk with you on your healing journey.
Location: Online through Zoom
Meetings: Every Tuesday from 7:30pm to 8:30pm
Contact: Linda Walters, lindagerwalters@sympatico.ca, 416-716-8343

North York Parent Group for Chinese Speaking Families

In association with: Gifted People Services
Description: Parent Support Group for parents of teens and adults with a developmental disability. Includes speakers, discuss issues of concern to the group members.
Location: Online through Zoom
Meetings: 3rd Friday every month from 7pm to 8pm
Contact: Sara Zhang, program@giftedpeople.ca, 647-978-8416

Online Webinars

In association with: Partners for Planning
Description: Each month Partners for Planning hosts online webcasts on a variety of topics for families. Throughout the webcasts, families can connect and have conversations through the chat and some webcasts will host a forum chat after the webcasts with the opportunity to engage with the presenters and other families.
Location: online ( www.partnersforplanning.ca )
Contact: Natalie Jones, njones@p4p.ca, 416-232-9444. Check out www.partnersforplanning.ca

Ontario Wide Virtual Support Group for Mom’s

In Association with: Community Living Toronto, Montage Support Services and The Relationship Group.
Description: A virtual support group for Moms who have a child with an intellectual disability and/or Autism of any age to come together to share, strategize and support one another. The group is open to everyone regardless of where they reside in the province of Ontario.
Location: ZOOM Meeting, link will be sent once RSVP has been received.
Meetings: Mondays 7:30pm-9:30pm September 19 – December 12, 2022, OR Thursdays 1:00pm-3:00pm September 22 – December 15, 2022.
Contact: Linda: lindagerwalters@sympatico.ca or Tracey: toregan@cltoronto.ca for more information.

Parent and Caregiver Support Group

UPDATE: Postponed until further notice

In association with: Asperger Society Ontario (ASO)
Description: Provides a forum for learning, support, and the exchange of information for parents, family members and caregivers of children with Asperger Syndrome. No fees
Location: Toronto City Hall – Committee Room #4 (100 Queen Street West, Toronto, ON)
Meetings: Monthly – last Monday of each month from 6:30 – 8:00 p.m.
Contact: info@aspergers.ca

Parent’s Advocacy in the School

www.parentsadvocacy.com
Description: A support group for parents and caregivers to help them advocate for the programs and services their children with exceptionalities require. Information, resources and parent training is available via PAS. A new initiative is the creation of PAAT- The Parents Advocacy Association of Toronto & GTA – Where Parents of Children With Special Needs Unite.
Contact: Dr. Norm Forman
416-429-8511 or PAAT 647-794-6679 – email: support@parentsadvocacy.com

Parent Link

UPDATE: Postponed until further notice

In association with: Youthlink
Description: Provide parent peer support, education and information exchange related to the developmental sector.
Location: 747 Warden Avenue (map)
Meetings: Second Thursday of each month from Oct to June from 7:00 – 9:00 p.m.
Contact: Roger Smith, Roger.smith@youthlink.ca & Blair Coombs, blair.coombs@youthlink.ca or 416.967.1773

Parent Share

UPDATE: Combined with Danforth Parent Support Group until further notice

In association with: Community Living Toronto & Parent Outreach Program
Description: A get-together for parents of children (of any age) who have a developmental disability. This informal time is designed for parents to share, be together and connect with each other.
Location: Zoom
Meetings: every second Thursday morning from September –June from 9:30-12:00
Contact: Janet Dunne, jdunne@cltoronto.ca, 647-729-1699, Bonnie Heath, bheath@woodgreen.org, 416 645 6000 x1311.

Parent Support Network

In association with: Holland Bloorview Kids Rehabilitation Hospital
Description: Parent Support Network (PSN) is a monthly support and discussion event for families. PSN is co-facilitated by a Holland Bloorview Family Support Specialist and a Family Leader. Aims to create a space where families can share experiences, information, challenges and successes. At times we have guest speakers who present on various topics and join the discussion.
Location: Online through Zoom, must register in advance
Meetings: 1st Wednesday of every month, alternating between day and evening times
Contact: resourcecentre@hollandbloorview.ca

Safe & Secure Futures Networks

In association with: Extend-A-Family https://www.extendafamily.ca/safe-secure-futures-networks/
Description: Aims to empower families to develop and nurture a support circle with their family member who has a disability. Offer opportunities to share and learn from each other. A variety of topics of mutual interest are explored through guided discussions with a facilitator.
Location: Virtual via Zoom
Meetings: Third Tuesday of the month from 7:00-8:30 , subject to change depending on availability
Toronto East Contact: Kristen Carhart, ssfne@extendafamily.ca, 647-292-5175
Toronto West Contact: Nusrat Motala, ssfnw@extendafamily.ca, 437-335-2180

Sawubona Africentric Circle of Support (formerly Black Parent Support Group)

In association with: Community Living Toronto
Description: A group for Black caregivers of children or adults with intellectual or developmental disabilities.
Location: via ZOOM through your phone; tablet; laptop; or other online device
Meetings: Monthly every 2nd & 4th Tuesday of the month
Contact: Sherron Grant, or Clovis, bpsgroup2020@gmail.com
Facebook: BPSG: Black Parents of Children and Adults with a Disability Support Group
Flyer: Meeting Dates 2021-2022

Scarborough Residential Alternatives

Description: This is a group of parents looking at various alternatives to independent living – funding, affordability, roommates, support, etc. While the meetings are mostly about housing and supports, a decent life is also discussed and lots of questions and figuring out goes on.
Location: Zoom meeting https://zoom.us/j/92833780448?pwd=TXlQcE5CUEV5a2J2VlVqZi9hOTAxUT09
Meetings: First Tuesday of each month in person from September -June, but a lot of the information and ideas are shared through email.
Contact: Bonnie Heath, heath_bonnie@hotmail.com, 416-550-0177

Toronto Family Network

Description: A regional family network affiliated with Family Alliance Ontario that provides support and information to families regarding how to navigate the educational system and other sectors involving children (of all ages) with additional needs. Families who seek out the Toronto Family Network are provided assistance mainly via e-mail or telephone. When possible, Toronto Family Network volunteers have accompanied parents to IPRC meetings, IEP meetings, etc. Families can also receive support when the Toronto Family Network is invited to speak at conferences and provides workshops to small groups of families.
Contact: Janis Jaffe White or Reva Schafer 416-484-1536, torontofamilynetwork@gmail.com

West Parents’ Support Group

In association with: Extend-A-Family http://extendafamily.ca/our-services/family-support-groups/
Description: A gathering for Parents/Guardians, who have children of any age who have a disability. This informal time is designed for Parents/Guardians to share, be together, connect and support one another. Sessions run once a month on Thursday evenings
Location: Virtual
Meetings: Sessions run once a month on Thursday evenings
Time: 7:00 – 8:30pm
RSVP: Marissa Wolicki (Family Coordinator) mw@extendafamily.ca 647-292-5357

Young Caregiver Online Support Group

Description: Are you a caregiver between the ages of 15-25? We’re here to help.
Location: Virtual
Meetings: Wednesday evenings
Time: 7:30pm
RSVP: Register online

To be added to this list or to report any changes please contact us at support@connectability.ca

Toronto agencies offering interpretation services

Free Interpretation Services

Barbra Schlifer Commemorative Clinic

Address: 489 College St Ste 503, Toronto, ON M6G 1A5
Location: Toronto West
Phone: 416-323-9149
TTY: 416-323-1361
Fax: 416-323-9107
Email: admin@schliferclinic.com
Website: www.schliferclinic.com
Languages: English; Spanish; Punjabi; Urdu; Hindi; Gujarati; Filipino; Farsi; Tamil; Amharic

Afghan Women’s Organization

Address: 789 Don Mills Rd Ste 700, Toronto, ON M3C 1T5
Location: North York East
Phone: 416-588-3585
Fax: 416-588-4552
Email: awo@afghanwomen.org
Website: https://afghanwomen.org/
Languages: English; Arabic; Farsi; Dari; Pashto; Uzbek

Armenian Family Support Services

Address: Holy Trinity Armenian Church, 920 Progress Ave, Toronto, ON M1G 3T5
Location: Scarborough Central
Phone: 416-431-5549 ; Church office 416-431-3001
Fax: 416-431-0269
Email: contactus@afsstoronto.ca
Website:
Languages: English; Arabic; Russian; Farsi; Armenian

Armenian Relief Society Toronto – Roubina Chapter

Address: Armenian Community Centre, 45 Hallcrown Pl, Toronto, ON M2J 4Y4
Location: North York East
Phone: 416-495-0644
Fax: 416-495-1729
Email: arssocialservices@yahoo.ca
Website: https://www.acctoronto.ca/organizations/armenian-relief-society/
Languages: English; Armenian

Centre for Spanish Speaking Peoples

Address: 2141 Jane St 2nd Fl, Toronto, ON M3M 1A2
Location: North York West
Phone: 416-533-8545
Fax: 416-533-5731
Email: info@spanishservices.org
Website: www.spanishservices.org
Languages: English; Spanish

Dejinta Beesha Multi-Service Centre

Address: Rexdale Multiservice Hub, 21 Panorama Crt Unit 24, Toronto, ON M9V 4E3
Location: Etobicoke North
Phone: 416-743-1286
Fax: 416-743-1233
Email: info@dejinta.org
Languages: English; Italian; Arabic; Somali; Swahili

Eritrean Canadian Community Centre Toronto

Address: 550 St Clair Ave West Ste 209, Toronto, ON M6C 1A5
Location: Toronto North
Phone: 416-658-8580
Fax: 416-658-7442
Email: info@eccctoronto.ca
Website: www.eccctoronto.ca
Languages: English; Arabic; Amharic; Tigre ; Tigrinya

Ethiopian Association in the Greater Toronto Area

Address: 1950 Danforth Ave, Toronto, ON M4C 1J4
Location: Toronto East
Phone: 416-694-1522
Fax: 416-694-8736
Email: office@ethiocommun.org
Website: https://www.ethioassociation.org/
Languages: English; Italian; Arabic; Somali; Amharic; Oromo ; Tigrinya

FCJ Refugee Centre

Address: 208 Oakwood Ave, Toronto, ON M6E 2V4
Location: City of York
Phone: 416-469-9754
Fax: 416-469-2670
Email: info@fcjrefugeecentre.org
Website: www.fcjrefugeecentre.org
Languages: Spanish

Greek Orthodox Family Services and Counselling. Wife Assault Program

Address: St Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church, 3840 Finch Ave East, Toronto, ON M1T 3T4
Location: Scarborough North
Phone: 416-291-5229
Fax: 416-291-5358
Email: greekfamilyservices@yahoo.ca
Website: www.gometropolis.org/metropolis/social-services
Languages: Greek

Kababayan Community Centre

Address: 1313 Queen St West Ste 133, Toronto, ON M6K 1L8
Location: Toronto West
Phone: 416-532-3888
Fax: 416-532-0037
Email: office@kababayan.org
Website: www.kababayan.org
Languages: English; Hindi; Filipino; Nepali

KCWA Family and Social Services

Address: 27 Madison Ave, Toronto, ON M5R 2S2
Location: Toronto North
Phone: 416-340-1234
Fax: 416-340-8114
Email: kcwa@kcwa.net
Website: www.kcwa.net
Languages: English; Korean

Lao Association of Ontario

Address: 956 Wilson Ave, Toronto, ON M3K 1E7
Location: North York West
Phone: 416-398-3057
Email: info@laoweb.org
Website: www.laoweb.org
Hours: Mon-Fri 9 am-5 pm
Languages: English; French – (some volunteers); Thai; Lao

Latino-Canadian Community Association of Scarborough

Address: 2929 Lawrence Ave East Ste 205, Toronto, ON M1P 2S8
Location: Scarborough Central
Phone: 416-492-5128
Fax: Call first 416-492-5128
Email: gapar@rogers.com
Languages: Spanish

Mennonite New Life Centre of Toronto. North York Branch

Address: 2737 Keele St Unit 9, Toronto M3M 2E9
Location: North York West
Phone: 647-776-2057
Fax: 647-776-2061
Email: mnlct@mnlct.org
Website: www.mnlct.org
Languages: Spanish, French

Midaynta Community Services

Address: 1992 Yonge St Ste 203, Toronto, ON M4S 1Z7
Location: Toronto North
Phone: 416-544-1992
Fax: 416-440-3379
Email: info@midaynta.com
Website: www.midaynta.com
Languages: English; Somali – Italian and Romanian available by appointment ; translation of documents — Arabic, Somali

Northwood Neighbourhood Services

Address: 2625D Weston Rd 2nd Fl, Unit 27, Toronto, ON M9N 3V8
Location: North York West
Phone: 416-748-0788
Fax: 416-748-0525
Email: info@northw.ca
Website: www.northw.ca
Languages: English; Italian; Spanish; Arabic; Punjabi; Urdu; Hindi; Gujarati; Farsi; Albanian; Amharic; Pashto; Swahili ; Vietnamese

Oromo Canadian Community Association of GTA

Notice: Formerly known as Oromo Canadian Community Association of Greater Toronto Area
Address: 94 Kenhar Dr Ste 3, Toronto, ON M9L 1N2
Location: North York West
Phone: 416-767-8784
Fax: 416-767-7223
Email: oromocanadian@yahoo.ca
Languages: English; Amharic; Oromo

Rexdale Women’s Centre. Rexdale Multiservice Hub. Immigrant Settlement and Adaptation Services

Address: 21 Panorama Crt Ste 2300, Toronto, ON M9V 4E3
Location: Etobicoke North
Phone: 416-745-0062
Fax: 416-640-1627
Email: sakrampall@rexdalewomen.org
Website: www.rexdalewomen.org
Languages: English; Spanish; Arabic; Punjabi; Serbian; Urdu; Somali; Hindi; Gujarati; Croatian; Chinese (Mandarin); Bosnian; Farsi; Tamil; Twi; West Indian dialects; Assyrian; Dari; Pashto – Italian — available upon request

SEAS Centre

Address: 603 Whiteside Pl, Toronto, ON M5A 1Y7
Location: Toronto East
Phone: 416-362-1375
Fax: 416-362-4881
Email: info@seascentre.org
Website: www.seascentre.org
Languages: English; Filipino; Chinese (Mandarin); Chinese (Cantonese) ; Vietnamese

Settlement Assistance and Family Support Services

Address: 1200 Markham Rd Sts 214 & 221, Toronto, ON M1H 3C3
Location: Scarborough Central
Phone: 416-431-4847
Fax: 416-431-7283
Email: reception@safss.org
Website: www.safss.org
Languages: English; French; Spanish; Punjabi; Urdu; Bengali; Hindi; Gujarati; Filipino; Chinese (Mandarin); Farsi; Tamil; Chinese (Cantonese) ; Dari; Pashto

South Asian Women’s Centre

Address: 800 Lansdowne Ave Unit 1, Toronto, ON M6H 4K3
Location: Toronto West
Phone: 416-537-2276
Fax: 416-537-9472
Website: www.sawc.org
Languages: English; Arabic; Punjabi; Portuguese; Urdu; Hindi; Tamil; Tibetan

Working Women Community Centre

Address: 533A Gladstone Ave, Toronto, ON M6H 3J1
Location: Toronto West
Phone: 416-532-2824
Fax: 416-532-1065
Email: admin@workingwomencc.org
Website: www.workingwomencc.org
Languages: English; Spanish; Arabic; Punjabi; Portuguese; Urdu; Chinese (Mandarin); Twi; Ewe; Ga; Tigrinya

YMCA of Greater Toronto. Korean Community Services. Toronto West Location

Address: 721 Bloor St West Ste 303, Toronto, ON M6G 1L5
Location: Toronto West
Phone: 416-538-9412
Fax: 416-538-1778
Languages: Korean

Fee for Interpretation Service

Canadian Ukrainian Immigrant Aid Society

Address: 2383 Bloor St West 2nd Fl, Toronto, ON M6S 1P6
Location: Toronto West
Phone: 416-767-4595
Fax: 416-767-2658
Email: cuias@cuias.org
Website: www.cuias.org
Languages: English; Polish; Ukrainian; Russian; Romanian

Afghan Association of Ontario

Address: 29 Pemican Crt Unit 6, Toronto, ON M9M 2Z3
Location: North York West
Phone: 416-744-9289
Fax: 416-744-6671
Email: info@aaocanada.ca
Website: www.aaocanada.ca
(fees vary)
Languages: English; Urdu; Farsi; Dari; Pashto

Arab Community Centre of Toronto

Address: 555 Burnhamthorpe Rd Ste 209, Toronto, ON M9C 2Y3
Location: Etobicoke Central
Phone: 416-231-7746
Fax: 416-231-4770
Email: Info@arabnewcomers.org
Website: https://www.acctonline.ca/
Languages: English; French; Arabic; Punjabi; Russian; Urdu; Hindi; Farsi; Armenian; Assyrian; Dari; Kurdish ; Lithuanian ; Pashto; Turkish

Arab Immigrant Centre

Address: Parkway Mall, 85 Ellesmere Rd Ste 234, Toronto, ON M1R 4B8
Location: Scarborough Central
Phone: 416-444-1163
Fax: 416-444-9031
Email: immigrationconsultant@rogers.com
Languages: English; Arabic

Canadian Ukrainian Immigrant Aid Society

Address: 2383 Bloor St West 2nd Fl, Toronto, ON M6S 1P6
Location: Toronto West
Phone: 416-767-4595
Fax: 416-767-2658
Email: cuias@cuias.org
Website: www.cuias.org
Languages: English; Polish; Ukrainian; Russian; Romanian

Centre for Immigrant and Community Services

Notice: Formerly known as Centre for Information and Community Services of Ontario
Address: 2330 Midland Ave, Toronto, ON M1S 5G5
Location: Scarborough North
Phone: 416-292-7510
Toll free: 1-855-392-2427
Fax: 416-292-9120
Email: info@cicscanada.com
Website: www.cicscanada.com
Languages: English; French; Spanish; Arabic; Punjabi; Ukrainian; Russian; Urdu; Korean; Bengali; Hindi; Gujarati; Hebrew; Filipino; Chinese (Mandarin); Farsi; Tamil; Chinese (Cantonese) ; Dari; Kurdish ; Malay ; Sindhi

COSTI

Address: 1710 Dufferin St, Toronto, ON M6E 3P2
Location: Toronto West
Phone: 416-658-1600
Fax: 416-658-8537
Email: info@costi.org
Website: www.costi.org
Languages: English; French; Italian; Spanish; Portuguese; Tamil

Eastview Neighbourhood Community Centre

Address: 86 Blake St, Toronto, ON M4J 3C9
Location: Toronto East
Phone: 416-392-1750
Fax: 416-392-1175
Email: info@eastviewcentre.com
Website: www.eastviewcentre.com
Languages: English; German; Arabic; Chinese (Mandarin); Chinese (Cantonese) ; Vietnamese

Elspeth Heyworth Centre for Women

Address: 2350 Finch Ave West Unit D, Toronto, ON M9M 2C7
Location: North York West
Phone: 416-663-2978
Fax: 416-479-0898
Email: info@ehcw.ca
Website: www.ehcw.ca
Languages: English; Punjabi; Russian; Urdu; Hindi; Gujarati – interpreters available for other languages

Interpreter Services Toronto

Address: 489 College St, Toronto, ON M6G 1A5
Location: Toronto Central
Phone: 416-323-2503
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Jewish Immigrant Aid Services Toronto

Address: 4600 Bathurst St Ste 325, Toronto, ON M2R 3V3
Location: North York West
Phone: 416-630-6481
Fax: 416-630-1376
Email: info@jiastoronto.org
Website: www.jiastoronto.org
Languages: English; French – (one counsellor); Spanish; Russian; Hebrew; Yiddish

Multilingual Community Interpreter Services

Address: 789 Don Mills Rd Ste 608, Toronto, ON M3C 1T5
Location: North York East
Phone: 24 hours 416-426-7051; Training 416-426-7014
Crisis phone: 24 hours 416-422-5984; 24 hours 1-888-236-8311
Fax: 416-426-7118
Email: info@mcis.on.ca
Website: www.mcislanguages.com
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Planned Parenthood Toronto. Health Services

Address: 36B Prince Arthur Ave Main Fl, Toronto, ON M5R 1A9
Location: Toronto North
Phone: 416-961-0113
Fax: 416-961-9856
Email: ppt@ppt.on.ca
Website: www.ppt.on.ca

Refugees and Immigrants Information Centre Toronto

Address: 560 Parliament St 2nd Fl, Toronto, ON M4X 1P8
Location: Toronto East
Phone: 416-961-7027
Fax: 416-961-9732
Languages: English; French – translation and interpretation for 30 languages including French, Sinhala, Spanish, Tamil

St Stephen’s Community House. Augusta Centre

Address: 260 Augusta Ave, Toronto, ON M5T 2L9
Location: Toronto Central
Phone: 416-964-8747 ext 0
Fax: 416-966-2178
Email: 260admin@ststephenshouse.com
Website: www.sschto.ca
Languages: English; Spanish; Portuguese; Chinese (Mandarin); Chinese (Cantonese)

Ukrainian Canadian Social Services (Toronto)

Address: 2445 Bloor St West, Toronto, ON M6S 1P7
Location: Toronto West
Phone: 416-763-4982
Fax: 416-763-3997
Email: toradmin@ucss.info
Website: www.tor.ucss.info
Languages: Ukrainian

Child and Family Programs

Child and Family Centres provide literacy-rich places for children from birth to 6 years of age to come play and learn with their parents or caregivers. Parents and caregivers can get answers to questions about child development; nutrition, parenting, pregnancy and can connect to a range of professionals and other services in their community.

Special Needs and Inclusion Competency Guidelines

The purpose of the Special Needs and Inclusion Competency Guidelines is to assist organizations to proactively, naturally and seamlessly welcome and integrate every child and family without exception.

OEYC Special Needs and Inclusion Guidelines


Let’s Get Started

An early learning program for children with extra support needs and their parent/caregiver. The Let’s Get Started program brings together health and social services to deliver an accessible 6 – 8 week parent-child social play group program that responds to a family’s immediate practical parenting and child development needs.

Let’s Get Started training videos

Let's Get Started: Fundamentals
Let's Get Started: Nuts and Bolts of Programming
Let's Get Started: Social Skills
Suporting Familes
Preschool Speech and Language: Workshop 1

To find out more about the Let’s Get Started Program or to receive training call CITYKIDS at 416 920-6543 or at citykids@mothercraft.org

Family playing together

Including Children with Special Needs: A Guide for Child and Family Programs

This guide was developed to assist child and family programs (CFPs) to better serve children with special needs and their parents and caregivers. It is intended for any program that serves children from birth to six years of age. Originally published in 2001, it has been updated to reflect current thinking, research and practices within the field of early childhood education and care.
Source: Macaulay Child Development Centre

Including Children with Special Needs: A Guide for Child and Family Programs


Inclusion ~ Policy development guidelines for early learning and care programs

This guide provides an overview of how to develop and embed Inclusion within the policies of your child care program. It outlines the benefits of inclusive child care from both a practical and an ethical point of view.

Inclusion policy


Connected Kids

Connected Kids Audio-Visual Workshops were specifically designed to empower families and professionals to use strategies that will have a positive impact on child learning outcomes.

Giving Instructions

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Kate Massey of K.I.D.S (Kids Included in Day Care and Early Childhood Services) shares some very practical strategies for helping your child to understand and follow through with requests.

Giving Instructions Workshop: Group Guide

Family Literacy 1

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A workshop on building self-esteem as the foundation for literacy skills.

Family Literacy 1, Self-Esteem: Group Guide

Family Literacy 2

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A workshop on reading and storytelling.

Family Literacy 2, Reading and Storytelling: Group Guide

Mealtime Routines

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A workshop about easier mealtimes, inside and outside your home.

Playing to Learn

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A workshop about using simple “play” to help develop and expand motor, language and social skills.

Sharing and Turn Taking

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A workshop on developing critical skills for life through play.

Sleep

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A workshop on chronic sleep problems affecting many children with special needs.

Sleep Workshop: Group Guide

Reinforcement

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A workshop to help parents and caregivers influence and manage behaviour.

Reinforcement Workshop: Group Guide

Visual Communications

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A workshop to help parents and caregivers expand their communication through the use of simple but powerful visual tools.

Visual Communication Workshop: Group Guide

Related Links

The Hanen Centre

The Hanen Centre is a Canadian not-for-profit charitable organization committed to supporting parents, early childhood educators and speech-language pathologists in their efforts to promote the best possible language, social and literacy skills in young children.

http://www.hanen.org/

Does Baby Sign Make a Difference?

By Lauren Lowry, Hanen Certified SLP and Clinical Staff Writer

The following article is taken with permission from The Hanen Centre from www.hanen.org. The Hanen Centre is a Canadian not-for-profit charitable organization with a global reach. Its mission is to provide parents, caregivers, early childhood educators and speech-language pathologists with the knowledge and training they need to help young children develop the best possible language, social and literacy skills. This includes children who have or are at risk for language delays, those with developmental challenges such as autism, and those who are developing typically.

If you Google “baby sign”, you’ll probably find claims that teaching some sign language to a typically-developing baby helps the baby to speak sooner, develop a larger spoken vocabulary, have stronger cognitive skills, and feel closer to his or her parents. Most baby sign websites talk about research that backs up their claims. But a review of this research by experts in Ontario, Canada revealed that there were many problems with the scientific methods used in these studies [1]. Therefore, many of the baby sign claims were not supported.

The controversy around baby signs can be puzzling for parents, who might wonder:

  • “Will baby signs promote my child’s language development?”
  • “Will baby signs help me to bond with my baby?”
  • “What is the best way to encourage my baby’s language development?”

A recent study about baby sign

A controlled study in 2013 by researchers in Hertfordshire, England used better scientific methods in order to determine the effects of baby sign on language development and on the mother-child bond [2]. Dr. Elizabeth Kirk and her team wanted to study this topic in order to provide sound evidence regarding the usefulness of baby sign products and classes. They studied forty babies (and their mothers) from age eight months to twenty months. The babies were randomly divided into groups, and the mothers in each group were instructed to either:

  • model signs (while also saying the corresponding word)
  • model target words (but no signs)
  • interact as they normally would (no focus on signs or target words)

The babies in the first two groups were exposed to the same twenty target signs or words, such as “food”, “more”, “drink”, “hat”, “duck”, “flower”, “where”, “more”, “all-gone”, “hot” and several others. Mothers in the signing group and the target word group were instructed to use the signs/words as often as possible during everyday interactions with their babies.

The babies were assessed when they were eight, ten, twelve, sixteen, and twenty months of age. Kirk and her team found that:

  • the babies in the signing group learned some of the signs (ranging between two to seventeen signs)
  • the babies in the signing group didn’t learn to say any more target words than children in the other two groups
  • the overall language of the signing babies wasn’t any better than the children in the other two groups

Therefore, previous claims that encouraging gesturing with infants speeds up their language development was not supported [2]. However, the authors also found that:

  • signing seemed to benefit three boys who had low language scores at the beginning of the study, and who made some language gains during the study. While this was only noted with these three children, this could mean that signing is beneficial for children with weaker language abilities.
  • there were subtle changes in the mother-child interactions in the signing group. Signing mothers were more responsive to their babies’ nonverbal cues (such as noticing changes in the direction of their infants’ gaze, and their infants’ actions with objects). They also encouraged more independent action by their babies (such as encouraging the baby to go and get a ball while gesturing and saying “you get the ball”). The authors explained that using signs may have changed the mothers’ perception of their infants, and encouraged them to notice their babies’ nonverbal attempts at communication [2].

The final verdict on baby sign

The study above can answer some of our questions about the usefulness of teaching signs to typically-developing babies:

“Will baby signs promote my child’s language development?”

  • No. “There is little evidence that it can ‘improve’ typically developing infants” [2, p. 586]. This study provided some evidence that it may help children with weak language abilities, but this was only found in three children (too small a number to draw any widespread conclusions).

“Will baby signs help me to bond with my baby?”

  • Perhaps. The mothers in the signing groups did notice more of their babies’ nonverbal cues and they seemed somewhat more “tuned in” to their child. This can promote bonding because it improves parent-child interaction and communication. The more parents tune in to their baby’s messages, the more they can respond to their baby. This builds the baby’s confidence and motivation to communicate and interact.

“What is the best way to encourage my baby’s language development?”

While taking a baby sign class or purchasing baby sign products may not be necessary, there are some simple things you can do at home to promote your baby’s language development:

  • Notice your baby’s nonverbal messages –try to observe your baby’s actions and what she is attending to. Listen to your baby’s sounds. Pause often when interacting with her, and give her a chance to send messages by making eye contact with her and waiting without speaking. You might realize that your baby is sending more messages than you thought!
  • Be your baby’s interpreter – when your baby notices something, reaches for something, points, or sends another message, say the word(s) that match her message. When your words correspond to your baby’s message, it will help her understand those words and eventually use them.
  • Use natural gestures with your baby – you don’t need to model formal sign language with your baby, but gesturing while you speak is a natural part of communication. Gestures (as well as facial expression and tone of voice) add information to our spoken messages, and children need to learn to understand and use these forms of nonverbal messages. So, use everyday gestures with your baby, such as pointing, shaking and nodding your head for “yes” and “no”, gesturing to come with your hand, finger to lips for “quiet”, etc.
  • Avoid gestures/signs that represent broad concepts – like “more” or “want”. These gestures/signs are easily “overgeneralized” by children. This means they use the gesture/sign to represent too many things instead of learning a variety of individual concepts. For example, children who learn the sign for “more” sometimes use this sign to ask for everything they want (food, activities, toys, etc) instead of learning a number of specific words or gestures.
  • Consult a speech language pathologist if you are concerned about your baby’s communication development – our article “ When should you seek help?” provides guidelines to help parents identify key developmental milestones expected at different ages.
    If your child has an identified language delay – signs are sometimes recommended by speech language pathologist to provide nonverbal children who have language delays with an alternate means of communicating. These signs are carefully selected by the speech language pathologist and do not follow a baby sign program. Consult your speech language pathologist if you are wondering if signs would be helpful for your child.

References

  1. Johnston, J. C., Durieux-Smith, A., & Bloom, K. (2005). Teaching gestural signs to infants to advance child development: A review of the evidence. First Language, 25(2), 235-251.
  2. Kirk, E., Howlett, N., Pine, K. J., & Fletcher, B. C. (2012). To sign or not to sign? The impact of encouraging infants to gesture on infant language and maternal mind-mindedness. Child Development, 84(2), 574-590.

Build Your Child’s Vocabulary

By Lauren Lowry, Hanen Certified SLP and Clinical Staff Writer

The following article is taken with permission from The Hanen Centre from www.hanen.org. The Hanen Centre is a Canadian not-for-profit charitable organization with a global reach. Its mission is to provide parents, caregivers, early childhood educators and speech-language pathologists with the knowledge and training they need to help young children develop the best possible language, social and literacy skills. This includes children who have or are at risk for language delays, those with developmental challenges such as autism, and those who are developing typically.

Did you know that:

  • a child’s vocabulary growth is directly linked to his or her overall school achievement [1]
  • the size of a child’s vocabulary in kindergarten predicts his ability to learn to read [2]
  • the more words a child knows, the more information the child has access to
  • having a large vocabulary helps children think and learn about the world

It is important to encourage children’s vocabulary development so that they develop the language and literacy skills necessary to succeed in school. The adults in a child’s life play a significant role in helping a child learn new words. Through everyday conversations and interactions, caregivers use unfamiliar words and talk about what words mean, which helps expand a child’s vocabulary. In fact, the number of words a child is exposed to by his parents relates directly to the size of the child’s vocabulary [3].

A recent study about vocabulary

However, it’s not just about how much you say, but also about what words you use that makes a difference to a child’s vocabulary. In a 2012 study, Meredith Rowe looked at the factors that contribute most to a child’s later vocabulary development. She studied the vocabulary of 50 young children when they were 18, 30, 42, and 54 months of age, as well as the amount (quantity) and type (quality) of words the parents used with their children. She found certain factors that contributed to a child’s vocabulary one year later, such as the parents’ education and the child’s previous vocabulary. But some of her most interesting findings were that:

  • children’s vocabulary at 30 months was influenced by the quantity (number) of words a parent used one year earlier – This means that children aged 12-24 months benefit from hearing lots of talk and many examples of words.
  • children’s vocabulary at 42 months was influenced by parents’ use of a variety of sophisticated words one year earlier – Children aged 24-36 months have learned a lot of common vocabulary, and are ready to learn more difficult words, such as “purchase” instead of “buy”, or “weary” instead of “tired”.
  • children’s vocabulary at 54 months was influenced by parents’ use of narratives (talking about things that happened in the past or in the future) and explanations one year earlier – Children aged 36-48 months benefit from conversations about things that happened in the past (e.g. an outing they went on, something funny that happened at preschool, etc.) or something that is planned for the near future (e.g. a trip to see Grandma) is helpful. And providing explanations about things (e.g. answering children’s “why” questions) is also helpful at this age.

Rowe concluded that “quantity…is not the whole story” and that these other influences also have an impact on children’s vocabulary [2, p. 1771]. This is important information, as much literature that advises parents about children’s speech and language development encourages parents to talk to young children as much as possible (quantity). But Rowe’s study highlights the importance of quality, especially for children aged 24-48 months. Parents should try to keep one step ahead of their child – modelling words and concepts that are slightly beyond their child’s level to help his vocabulary grow.

How to help your child learn new words

From Rowe’s study, we know that:

  • young children (12-24 month olds) benefit from exposure to lots of words (quantity)
  • toddlers (24-36 months) benefit from hearing a variety of sophisticated words
  • preschool children (36-48 months) benefit from conversations about past and future events as well as explanations

This tells us what to say, but what about how to say it?

Here are some tips to keep in mind when modeling new vocabulary for your child:

  • Follow your child’s lead – This means emphasizing words that come up during everyday conversations and interactions with your child. If you talk about what interests your child, it is more likely your child will pay attention and learn a new word. If your child is interested in playing with cars, you can model words like “push”, “beep beep”, or “fast” with a young child or more complicated words like “mechanic”, “speed”, or “traffic” with a toddler. You can provide explanations for preschoolers like “he needs to get a new tire because his tire is flat”, talk about events in the past such as “remember when we had to take our car in to be repaired?”, or events that will happen in the future such as “Our car is dirty. Maybe we should go to the car wash.”
  • Children need to hear a word several times before they start to use it – This means that you might use a word with your child many times before your child actually says the word himself. Children’s understanding of words precedes their use of words. So, they will understand far more words than they can actually say. If you repeat words for your child on different occasions, it will give him more opportunities to hear and learn new words.
  • Don’t bombard your child with words – Just because quantity is important at some stages of development, this doesn’t mean that you should shower your child with constant talk. You should aim for a balanced conversation between you and your child – you say something, then your child says or does something, and so on. It is important to wait after you say something so you give your child a chance to respond in his own way.
  • Help your child understand what a new word means – By giving details about new words or explaining what words means, you build your child’s understanding of new words. For example, if you are playing with cars and introduce the word “passenger”, you might say something like “a passenger is someone who rides in a car or a bus or a train. A passenger goes for the ride but doesn’t drive the car or the bus.” Relating new words to your child’s personal experiences also helps him connect with new words. For example, if you are talking about the word “nervous,” you might say something like “Remember when you started preschool – you felt nervous. But eventually when you were more comfortable there, you didn’t feel nervous anymore.”
  • Actions can speak louder than words – If you accompany your words with actions, gestures, or facial expressions, it will help your child understand the meaning of the words. For example, when modeling the word “weary”, you could do a sleeping action (hands under your head) or yawn so that your child understands what the word means. Your voice can also add meaning to a word. For example, if you say the word “frightened” or “terrified” with a shaky voice that sounds like you are scared, it will help your child understand what you mean.

The bottom line… it’s not just how much you say, but also what you say and how you say it that makes a difference for your child’s vocabulary growth. Keeping one step ahead of your child will promote his vocabulary skills, and also set him on the path for success in school. For more information about building your child’s vocabulary skills, click here.

References

  1. Weitzman, E. & Greenberg, J. (2010). ABC and Beyond: Building Emergent Literacy in Early Childhood Settings. The Hanen Centre: Toronto.
  2. Rowe, M. (2012). A Longitudinal Investigation of the Role of Quantity and Quality of Child-Directed Speech in Vocabulary Development. Child Development: 83(5), 1762-1774.
  3. Hart, B. & Risley, T.R. (1995). Meaningful differences in the everyday experiences of young American children. Baltimore: Paul H. Brookes Publishing Co.

Give Your Child a Reason to Communicate with Bubbles

By Lauren Lowry, Hanen SLP and clinical writer

The following article is taken with permission from The Hanen Centre from www.hanen.org. The Hanen Centre is a Canadian not-for-profit charitable organization with a global reach. Its mission is to provide parents, caregivers, early childhood educators and speech-language pathologists with the knowledge and training they need to help young children develop the best possible language, social and literacy skills. This includes children who have or are at risk for language delays, those with developmental challenges such as autism, and those who are developing typically.

Playing with bubbles is a great activity for young children with Autism Spectrum Disorder because:

  • children can participate verbally or nonverbally during bubble play (therefore, this activity can be adapted for young children at any stage of development)
  • bubbles are inexpensive and portable
  • bubbles are a People Toy, a type of toy suggested in the More Than Words® guidebook [1]. People toys are hard-to-operate toys that require an adult’s help, like spinning tops, balloons, or wind-up toys. As most young children can’t blow the bubbles themselves, they need an adult to do this for them. This means that bubbles encourage interaction, and they offer a great opportunity for children to learn to send messages about the bubbles.
  • bubbles are fun!

What Can Your Child Learn From Playing Bubbles?

Depending on your child’s stage of development, your child might learn to:

  • look at you and smile
  • ask for more bubbles – by reaching for the bubble wand or jar, pointing, using a sign or picture, making a sound, or saying a word or sentence
  • ask you to play bubbles with him – by bringing you the bubble jar, reaching for or pointing to the jar, using a sign or picture for bubbles, or saying a sound, word, or sentence
  • ask you to open the bubble jar – by bringing you the jar, touching or pointing to the lid, or using a sign, picture, sound, word or sentence
  • copy what you say about the bubbles
  • make a comment about the bubbles

Give Your Child a Reason to Communicate when you Blow Bubbles

“Give your Child a Reason to Communicate” is a strategy from the More Than Words guidebook. It involves creating a situation that tempt your child to interact with you and send you messages. You can Give your Child a Reason to Communicate by doing the following:

  • First, get your child’s attention before you start to play:
    • get close to your child – you should be face-to-face
    • say his name
    • show him the bubble jar and introduce the activity (“Let’s blow bubbles!”)
  • Give your child a reason to ask you for more bubbles
    Start blowing bubbles. Once you have caught your child’s interest, hold the bubble wand near your mouth but don’t blow any bubbles. Wait for him to ask you in his own way for more bubbles. Depending on your child’s stage of development, he might ask for you for more bubbles by:

    • looking at you and smiling
    • reaching for the container or wand
    • pushing the wand towards your mouth or giving you the wand
    • pointing to the container or wand
    • using a sign, sound, word, or sentence

    Once your child sends a message, blow some more bubbles. Then pause again before blowing more bubbles. Each time you pause, wait for your child to send you a message.

  • Give your child a reason to make comments about the bubbles
    If your child is starting to talk in short sentences, you can help him learn to make comments while playing with bubbles. You do this by occasionally commenting about the bubbles yourself while you play, saying something like:

    • That one popped on my nose!
    • I’m all wet!
    • That’s a big bubble!
    • It went way up high
    • That bubble is tiny
    • It popped on your head!
    • You caught it!

    After you have made a few comments during the bubble play, you can give your child a reason to make a comment by blowing some bubbles, pointing to one of the bubbles, looking expectantly at your child and waiting. Be sure to point at something interesting, like a bubble that’s landed in a funny spot, or a very large bubble, etc. If your child doesn’t make a comment, you can give him a hint by starting him off (“Look! That bubble…”). Then pause and wait to see if your child finishes off the comment.

What To Do If….

  • your child grabs the bubble wand – wait! After a few attempts, your child will soon realize that he needs your help to blow the bubbles and will likely give the wand back to you. If your child doesn’t give you the wand, you can hold your hand out to give him a hint that he can ask for more by giving you the wand.
  • your child doesn’t send you a message when you wait – some children require a lot of time in order to send messages. So make sure you are waiting long enough. If that doesn’t work, try giving your child a “Cue” (another strategy from the More Than Words guidebook). Cues provide your child with a little extra help with sending his message. Depending on your child’s stage of development, you might:
    • lean in close and look expectantly at your child
    • say the first sound of the word you think your child might try to say (e.g. “bl….” for “blow”)
    • take your child’s hand and help him touch the bubble wand in order to ask for more
    • say a short sentence your child could copy (e.g. “blow some bubbles mom!”)
  • your child doesn’t like bubbles – that’s okay, bubbles can’t be everyone’s favourite! Try a different People Toy, such as a balloon or a wind-up toy. Maybe one of these will interest your child. Click here for more ideas from the More Than Words guidebook.
  • you don’t want to make a mess – some parents are reluctant to blow bubbles inside the house as it can be messy. If this is the case, you can try blowing bubbles outside or in the bathtub. Also, some toy stores sell “no-spill” bubbles jars.
  • you don’t have any bubbles – then make your own! Mix 1 part dish soap with 3 parts water (e.g. ½ cup dish soap and 1 ½ cups water). Add a couple of teaspoons of sugar and stir.
  • you don’t have a bubble wand – then make your own! Try bending a pipe cleaner into a bubble wand. Or use items from your kitchen that have holes in them, such as a small strainer, cookie cutters, an empty plastic berry container from the grocery store, or the plastic rings that hold a 6-pack of pop together.

You can find more examples of how to use People Toys with your child and how to Give your Child a Reason to Communicate in other situations in the More Than Words guidebook and on the More Than Words DVD: Promoting the Communication Development of Children with ASD & Other Social Communication Challenges. Learn more about these resources.

References

  1. Sussman, F. (2012). More Than Words: A Parent’s Guide to Building Interaction and Language Skills for Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder or Social Communication Difficulties. The Hanen Centre: Toronto.