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The Power of Observation

We spend much of our day consciously and unconsciously observing people, activities, elements of the environment and countless other things. Early childhood educators utilize their skills of observation on a continual basis. Within a matter of seconds an educator can assess the safety of an environment whether it is a playroom or playground, do a head count of children, observe children in play and determine what routine or transition is about to occur according to the daily schedule.

This may appear effortless to some, however it usually takes time and practice to develop these important skills and to find a method of observation that is tailor made for your teaching style. A good educator will recognize that regular observations can enhance their own teaching abilities and ultimately will have a positive impact on the children they support. Don’t wait until there is a concern or problem in your program to begin the process of observation. Rather, consider it a foundation block that is as much part of your program as your daily schedule.

Regular observations allow you to develop insight into all aspects of the program from the playroom environment to interactions between the children and adults. With knowledge gained through observations you’ll be better equipped to answer questions about the children in your program and share information with parents and professionals. You can often begin conversations with parents by discussing observations you have made of their son or daughter to discover their likes / dislikes etc. It also may aid you in identifying very specific triggers or events that may be causing a child to engage in problem behaviours. This type of information collection is a critical component of developing formal plans to assist children during times of difficulty and to customize specialized programming.

Learning environments that promote healthy child development are based upon the successful integration of techniques/ adaptations that are implemented by the teacher through the process of regular observation. We know each child is a unique learner and will absorb learning experiences and process information at their own pace. As educators we have developed many teaching strategies and adaptations to address individual learning styles with the goal of helping young children to succeed.
While one child may be comfortable with simple verbal instructions to complete a particular task, another child may benefit from a more direct approach such as watching another child or adult complete the requested task. Teachers who devote time for observation are motivated to provide learning experiences that children enjoy and are challenged by. The classroom is not a stagnate environment. It is ever-changing and in order to maintain this level of growth it is essential to utilize your daily observations of children and environment.

Why Observe?

Systematic observations made by sensitive and knowledgeable educators are more powerful than any other technique in determining a child’s strengths and needs; knowing what to observe and recording the information for later reference is critical to good observation. Often, observations can be done unobtrusively in the child’s classroom setting as she interacts with teachers, plays, and participates in regular transitions such as meal times. At other times, situations may have to be contrived to provide the information about specific behaviours. Deciding what to observe determines whether the observation can be natural or contrived. We observe children to determine their level of interest in and response to the environment, their ability to solve problems, communication skills, motor functioning, and social skills.

Children, even when participating in a quiet learning experience/ activity are in a constant state of learning through the process of independent play or by interacting with others, their play materials, and the environment. The educator, when time permits, is able to remove herself from direct teaching to that of the role of the observer. This unique opportunity allows the educator to observe relations between the children, developmental levels of the children, the classroom set-up, popular and unpopular activities and so on. The list or purpose of observing can be endless and it is best to have a focus or goal in mind when you want to observe the children. You should also consider scheduling a set time each week that you or a team member can devote to classroom observations. Try to select a day and rotate the times from the morning to the afternoon so you’re able to capture all aspects of the program.

Key to all observation techniques is a clear set of definitions of what is being observed. For example, if tantrums are to be observed, what constitutes a tantrum must be specified. What does a tantrum look like? How will you know it is occurring? Does a tantrum involve whining, turning away, crying, hitting, throwing things, refusing attempts to comfort, or some combination of all these things? Prior to the observation these categories and their definitions must be developed, and all those using the observational instrument must be trained and skilled in its use.

You may want to explore several observation techniques to select one that you are comfortable with. Remember that you’re not limited to only one technique and you’ll find that you need a few techniques in order to successfully observe children in your program and to record your findings.

Types of Observation:

Several strategies are used to structure information gathered during observations. These may include event recording, time sampling, checklists and rating scales, and coded observations. Observations are best performed in a child’s natural setting such as their home or classroom and if possible, by a person who is familiar with the child.

More than a few issues and cautions have been delineated that should be considered when using observational techniques:

  • select target behaviours
  • define target behaviours in observable terms
  • define the criteria to be used in judging occurrence or nonoccurrence
  • select no more than two targets to observe at one time
  • keep coding on data sheet simple and efficient (refer to linked documents for data collection)
  • know specifically what the observation is to reveal (for example, you may have a special purpose in mind, such as trying to discover how a certain child approaches other children)

With the advancement in technology in the classroom setting, specialized equipment such as audio/video recorders may assist you in this process (it is important to be aware of your centre policies/procedures regarding consent of taping/recording within the classroom setting).

Event Recordings: may be continuous, narrative records of the child’s behaviours and responses or a detailed recording of a single event. For example, behaviours of concern such as temper tantrums may occur regularly; it is important to capture the details of the antecedent condition (what happens right before the tantrum occurs), the behaviour during the tantrum, and the consequent events (what happens immediately after the tantrum) in order to develop appropriate management and treatment plans.

Time Sampling: often called interval recording, is used when behaviours occur more frequently and the observer is interested in the frequency of occurrence. To develop a more complete picture of a child’s behaviour you may decide to observe the child using a time sampling approach. Prior to the observation, you need to develop a form for recording observations and select the times you want to observe. Forms are usually quite simple; typically divided into smaller intervals of 15 seconds to 1 minute, and behaviours may be preprinted on the form so that the observer can record what is occurring during each interval. The observation period may last from several minutes at different times throughout the day to an hour or more every day for several weeks. At the end of the observation period, the percentage of time that the child has spent in the behaviours of interest can be determined.

Checklists and Rating Scales: can be used to determine the presence or absence of a particular skill or behaviour or to rate the quality of the behaviour or setting. Checklists of developmental milestones can be used; children are observed at play to determine which skills they have mastered, which are emerging, and which remained to be learned.

Coded Observations: are often used to study multiple interactions or behaviours occurring within a specified period of time. In observations of this kind, the behaviours of interest are specified prior to the observations. The number and types of behaviours can range from very few, simple behaviours to many complex interactional patterns.

All teachers need to develop skill as observers. They need to see and record as accurately and as objectively as possible what is happening in situations. Teachers learn most about children by studying their behaviour directly. By learning to observe with objectivity, to make careflul notes, and to og over these thoughtfully, a teacher increases her understanding of a child’s behaviour.

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Anger Management: Session 6

Conflict Resolution (Between Peers)

  1. Welcome Song
  2. Visual Schedule and Rules (welcome song, puppet show, discussion, story, calming activities, song, goodbye song)
  3. Review “Stop, Slow Down” visual
  4. Puppet Show – Bessie is holding a toy car.
    Bumble walks up to Bessie and says: Hey, that’s my car, I had it first! He tries to take the car from Bessie. [RED light is shown]

    Bessie: No, it’s mine! (and turns away from Bumble holding the car)

    Bumble hits Bessie on her back and Bessie screams.

    Mrs. Panda approaches the children and says: I can see you both are angry. Take a deep breath. [YELLOW light is shown] You’ll each get a chance to tell me what happened. Bumble, here’s the talking stick.

    Bumble: She had my car so I tried to get it back.

    Mrs. Panda: Were you playing with it?

    Bumble: Yes, I just came back from getting some blocks to build my house.

    Mrs. Panda: So, you had the car but you put it down to get the blocks?

    Bumble: Yes.

    Mrs. Panda: Bumble, please pass the talking stick to Bessie. (He passes it)

    Bessie: But I had the car!

    Mrs. Panda: So, you didn’t know that Bumble was using it?

    Bessie: No, I just got it.

    Mrs. Panda: So is there any way that you two can play with the car and the blocks together? [GREEN light is shown]

    Bessie and Bumble: I don’t know.

    Mrs. Panda: What about Bessie using the car while Bumble builds a house? Then when the house is done, Bessie you can drive over to the house and build something else while you use the car.

    Bessie and Bumble: Okay, let’s go.

  5. Problem-Solving Game: on each child’s turn, s/he takes a card which is read to the entire group and the group brainstorms to solve the problem on the card. There are three categories of problems: peer to peer, child to teacher, child to parent.
  6. Read Ask for Help and Work it Out book
  7. Musical Hula Hoops: arrange a few hula hoops on the floor. Tell the children that they can dance around the outside of the area and when the music stops, they need to put one foot inside a hula hoop. The object of the game is to get everyone inside the hoops. One hoop is removed after each round. No one is ever out of the game. Children may help their friends get into the hoops as there becomes less space for everyone to fit. Depending on the size of the group, go down to one or two hoops so that everyone still has a spot. Comment at the end about how well they worked together.
  8. Read “The Incredibles Book About Winning and Losing”
  9. Hurray Song

Anger Management: Session 5

Conflict Resolution (Child To Adult)

  1. Welcome Song
  2. Visual Schedule and Rules (welcome song, puppet show, discussion, story, calming activities, song, goodbye song)
  3. Emotion Dice (for younger children) – talk about how people are more similar than different.
  4. “Say it Back” (for older children) – name a topic such as colour and have the first child say “I like ____” then the second child says “[child’s name] likes purple. I like green.” The third child says what the second child likes and what they like. I.e., every child names what the child beside them likes and adds what they like. Adult changes the topic randomly (e.g., sport, food, toy, etc.) At the end, discuss the fact that although everyone likes different things, they can share their feelings and get along.
  5. Puppet show – Bessie is busy in the block centre.
    Mrs. Panda flashes the classroom light and sings the tidy up song.

    Bessie continues to play.

    Mrs. Panda comes up to Bessie and says: Bessie, it’s time to tidy up.

    Bessie: No, I don’t want to!

    Mrs. Panda: It’s circle time now.

    Bessie screams and throws blocks.

    Mrs. Panda: Bessie, I see you are at a red light. I know you like playing with blocks.

    Bessie: Yeah, and I don’t want to tidy up.

    Mrs. Panda: Well, let’s see if we can get you to a yellow light. Let’s do the finger pull. We all enjoy playing but it’s everyone’s responsibility to follow the rules and tidy up so we can have circle. Remember our rules keep us safe and help us to know what to expect. What can you do to be helpful now that you’re at a green light.

    Bessie: I can tidy up and come to circle.

  6. Read “The Reason for Rules” book
  7. Seated Twist pose
  8. Problem-Solving Finger Play:
    “Talk about the problem” (point to your mouth)
    “Listen to understand” (point to your ears)
    “Think of ways to solve it” (point to your head)
    “Choose the best plan” (point to palm of your hand)
  9. “Stop, Slow Down, and Go” Activity – place large circles on a board to depict a traffic light. Tell children that the red is “we can stop before hurting someone”, the yellow is “we can slow down and become calm while we decide what to do”, and green is “we can do helpful things to solve the problem such as talk, listen, forgive, show respect.” Have a set of cards that correspond to each of the three lights. Each child takes a card and decides whether it belongs to the red, yellow, or green category.
  10. Read “The Anger ABCs” book
  11. Hurray Song

Anger Management: Session 4

Taking Control of Your Anger

  1. Welcome Song – as in previous sessions
  2. Sliding Board yoga / seat push-up – from Session Three
  3. Visual Schedule (welcome, puppet show, game, story, calming activities, goodbye song)
  4. Puppet Show
    Bumble: I’m getting madder! (throws a toy)

    Mrs. Panda: Why, what happened?

    Bumble: First, I was last in line coming inside. Then, I was playing cars and Johnny hit me.

    Mrs. Panda: I guess since you were already a bit mad about being last in line, getting hit made it worse. Do you remember how we use our traffic light to calm down?

    Bumble: Yes, I guess I need it now.

    Mrs. Panda: You seem like you’re in the red light. You need to stop before you hurt someone. Let’s go to the yellow light and slow down. Smell the chocolate and blow out the candles. Hug yourself tightly. You look calm enough now to figure out what to do. You’re at a green light.

    Bumble: I feel much better. I’ll pick up the toy I threw and find something else to do.

    Mrs. Panda: Maybe next time if you feel like you’re getting really mad, you can smell the chocolate and blow out the candles. This will make it easier if anything else goes wrong.

  5. Okay Angries Dice
  6. Read Put the Brakes on Your Anger book
  7. Red Light, Yellow Light, Green Light – play the game in the usual way, adding “slow down” for yellow
  8. Discuss how we can take control of our bodies and calm down:
    • Read “Peaceful Piggy Yoga”
    • Demonstrate a few poses from book (cobra and warrior)
  9. “Listening with an Open Mind” activity – draw a face and place it on the front of a large glass jar. “Let’s pretend this jar is a person. Put the lid on and say “when someone won’t listen to new ideas, we say the person’s mind is closed. Pretend these clothespins are new ideas. Do you think the ideas will go in when the person isn’t listening?” After the children guess, try to drop the clothespins in with the lid still on. Remove the lid and drop the clothespins carefully so that they go in. “When we decide to listen, we have an open mind. Then we can hear and understand new ideas. What can we do to listen with an open mind?” Discuss staying quiet, thinking about what the person said, asking questions to clarify, look at the person talking, say back what you heard, and think about how the person might be feeling.
  10. Hurray Song

Anger Management: Session 3

Additional Strategies for Teaching Safe Ways to Express Anger

    1. Welcome Song – as in Sessions One and Two
    1. Train Yoga – from Session Two
    1. Visual Schedule (welcome, rules, game, story, calming activities, game, goodbye song)
    1. Discuss Anger Rules: (display visual of rules)
      It is okay to feel angry but:

      • Don’t hurt others
      • Don’t hurt yourself
      • Don’t hurt property
      • Talk about how you feel
    1. Fishing game with “Self-Calming Cards”. Each child gets a chance to fish for one card from the pond. All children act out the strategy on each card.
    1. Read Thomas the Tank’s Anger Book.
    1. Discuss how we can take control of our bodies and calm down:
      • Sliding board yoga
        Sit with your feet in front of you and your hands in back on the floor. Breathe in and push yourself up into a kind of backwards push-up. Make yourself into a perfectly straight sliding board by pushing your stomach up and point your toes away from you. Count to 10, 20, or 30–can you go for 50? (20-40 seconds)
        Sliding Board makes your arms, legs, and stomach muscles strong
      • Elephant yoga
        Stand up. Bend forward with your arms hanging down. Clasp your hands together, with fingers interlocked. Now walk around the room, bent over, and swinging your trunk. After a minute, stretch your trunk high up into the air, lean back and let out a big elephant sound like a horn!
    1. Game: cooperative Simon Says (act out safe ways to be angry). Have Simon say strategies previously discussed with self-calming cards.
    1. Read “The Anger Monster” book with or without the puppet and props to act it out. (Can use the monster puppet to depict the physical changes made when calming down.)
  1. Hurray song – as in Sessions One and Two.

Anger Management: Session 2

Anger Rules and Introduction to Safe Ways to Express Anger

  1. Welcome Song – same as in Session One
  2. Balloon Breath – from Session One
  3. Visual Schedule (welcome song, rules, puppet show, game, story, calming activities, song, goodbye song)
  4. Discuss Anger Rules: ( show visual of rules)
    It is okay to feel angry but:

    • Don’t hurt others
    • Don’t hurt yourself
    • Don’t hurt property
    • Talk about how you feel
  5. Puppet show: Unsafe Anger
    Bumble wants to play with Bessie. Bumble takes a Connect 4 game to Bessie and asks if she wants to play. Bessie is drawing.Bumble: “Bessie, do you want to play Connect 4 with me?”

    Bessie: “I’m sorry Bumble, but I’m colouring right now”.

    Bumble: “But I want to play with you now…” Bumble hits Bessie, throws the Connect 4 game and says “You’re not my friend anymore”

    Bessie runs away crying.

    O.K. Anger:

    Bumble wants to play with Bessie. Bumble takes a Connect 4 to Bessie and asks if she wants to play. Bessie is drawing.

    Bumble: “Bessie, do you want to play Connect 4 with me?”

    Bessie: “I’m sorry Bumble, but I’m colouring right now”.

    Bumble: “But I want to play with you now…I’m mad” and then says “I need to calm down. I’ll take a deep breath, count to three and do my train yoga…o.k. I feel better now. Hey, maybe I’ll colour too.” (Bumble joins Bessie in the colouring.)

  6. Cards and playdough from The Angry Monster Machine game (available at Parentbooks) – give each child a piece of playdough in the shape of a monster (from game) and have children each pick a card (from game) for facilitator to read aloud. All children follow the instructions of what to make with their playdough.
  7. Discuss how we can take control of our bodies and calm down:
    • Train yoga
      Let’s take a train to a jungle far away from here. Sit with your legs crossed. Bring your arms to your sides with your elbows bent. Make fists of your hands. As you punch one arm out straight in front, breathe in. As you punch the other arm out, bring the first arm back to your side and breathe out powerfully through your nose. Keep switching arms and punching out. Listen to your breath–does it sound like train wheels? Now breathe in deeply, and breathe out, as our train arrives at it’s destination.
    • Air Walk (if room permits) or Tree yoga
      Lie down on your back. Begin to walk in the air. Keep your right leg straight and lift it up as you lift the left arm. Breathe in as you lift, breathe out as your arm and leg go down. Then inhale again and lift the left leg and the right arm together. Exhale down. Keep going. Stretch straight up toward the sky. If this is hard, remember: you tell your brain what you want it to do! (20 – 40 seconds)
      Air Walk balances the two sides of your brain, and helps you think better
    • Monkey stretch
  8. Anger Monster Chant and visuals representing each strategy.
  9. Hurray Song

Anger Management: Session 1

Recognizing Anger in Oneself

  1. Welcome Song – sing with each child’s name in song
  2. Visual Schedule and Rules (welcome song, puppet show, discussion, story, calming activities, song, goodbye song)
  3. Puppet Show – What is Anger
    Bessie is playing with a car. Bumble comes up and takes the car away.

    Bumble: “Give me the car. I want it.” (Bumble grabs the car from Bessie).

    Bessie: “I was playing with it. Give it back. I am so angry!”

    Then Bessie says to the group: “I feel so angry. My face feels hot. My stomach is burning and I feel like I’m going to explode. I feel like grabbing my car back but I need to stop like a red light so no one gets hurt. I need to slow down like a yellow light (takes a deep breath and does palm push). Now I’m calm, it’s a green light so I can do something helpful like talk to Bumble.

    (Person playing Bumble holds up red, yellow, and green lights individually as Bessie talks about them.) traffic light with instructions

  4. Discuss how puppet physically feels when angry
    • Head
    • Stomach
    • Hands/feet
  5. Discuss how each child feels when they are angry and have them show where they feel different on their body when they are angry. Talk about how each person is different.
  6. Mind in a Jar experiment (from “Peaceful Piggy Meditation” book). Leave jar visible to group.
  7. Read “Peaceful Piggy Meditation” book by Kerry Lee MacLean (available at Parent Books and through on-line bookstores).
  8. “Stop, Slow Down and Go” – introduce the analogy of a traffic light for how to deal with anger. Red light is a reminder to stop before we hurt someone. Yellow light is for slowing down and becoming calm (using strategies) while deciding what to do. Green light is doing helpful things to improve the situation such as talking, listening, forgiving, showing respect, helping rebuild.
  9. Discuss how we can take control of our bodies and calm down:
    • Balloon breath (as a group)
      Sit with your legs folded and crossed, and your back straight. Put the palms of your hands together at the center of your chest. Close your eyes, and begin by taking three big balloon breaths. Here’s how: When you breathe in deeply, raise your arms up above your head in the shape of a big balloon. Then breathe out and bring your arms back down so that your palms are together at the center of your chest. Do this at least three times.

      When you have gotten really good at this, begin to imagine that you are breathing in and out through your forehead, right between your eyebrows.

    • Balloon Breath
      is a centering exercise. It attunes you to yourself and keeps you focused.
    • Palm push
  10. Hurray Song

When I Feel Angry

Materials Required:

  • 2 puppets
  • 2 toy cars for the puppet show
  • puppet theatre (optional)
  • visual schedule outlining the schedule for this session
  • rules board
  • crayons, markers or pencils (one per child)
  • scissors (one per child or enough for children to share)
  • glue (one per child or enough for children to share)
  • art activity sheets for “When I Feel Angry” (one per child)
  • “What I did in Social Skills Group” worksheets (one per child)
  • “When I Feel Angry” story books (one per child)

Schedule:

    1. Review the plan for today’s session by showing the children the visual schedule.
      • When reviewing the schedule, point to and name the pictures in order (e.g., first we will sing hello, have a puppet show, etc).
      • You may consider removing each picture as the activity is completed. You can create a pocket at the bottom/end of the schedule that represents “finished” or “all done”.
      • Place the schedule in a visible and accessible place where it can be referred to throughout the session.

Visual Schedule Pictures

    1. Each session begins with a song that welcomes all the children and teachers to the group. Here are a few suggestions:
      • Sing “Hello (child’s name), hello (child’s name), hello (child’s name), so glad you came today”. Repeat until everyone in the group has been greeted. Encourage the children to join in by waving hello and singing along.
      • If age appropriate, create name cards/tags for each child and teacher. Hold up each card while singing the “Hello Song” above. After singing the child’s name give them the name card to hold. Once the song is finished, ask the children to put their name cards behind them. The children can use the name cards later in the session when completing the worksheet.
      • You may also choose to use a “hello” or “welcome” song that you currently sing in your classroom.
    2. A rules board or a positive behaviour chart can help to provide a clear and consistent description of rules and expectations for the session. Decide on the main rules that will help the session run smoothly and help the children be successful in their learning. In our sample board, the rules are: raise your hand for a turn to speak, one person talks at a time, listen to others, sit on the carpet, keep your hands and feet to yourself, and have fun!Review the rules during each session. Have the children look at the rules, point to them and label them. Place the rules board in a visible and accessible place where it can be referred to during the session.

Group Time Rules

    1. OPTIONAL: Review the skill from last session. Ask the children if they remember what they learned in the previous social skills session. Can they recall the steps involved?For example, the previous skill was “Taking Turns” and the steps are:
      • My friend and I are playing a game.
      • My friend takes a turn.
      • I wait and watch my friend.
      • When my friend is finished, I take my turn.
      • We take turns until the game is all done.
    2. The puppet shows that you will be performing help to demonstrate the concept or skill for this session. At this time, you will be performing the ‘Appropriate Script’ which models the strategies to use when you feel angry.After the puppet show, have a brief discussion with the children about what they saw. Here are some sample questions you may want to ask:
      • How is Mona playing with her car? (She crashes her car into Jerome’s car.)
      • How do you think Jerome feels about Mona crashing into his car? (He does not like it.)
      • What does Jerome do with his feelings? Does he try to calm down? (He takes a deep breath.)
      • What does Jerome do next? (He asks Mona to stop crashing. Then he goes to talk to his teacher.)
      • What does the teacher suggest that Jerome do? (She suggests that he try talking to Mona again and tell her how he feels.)
      • Does Mona listen to Jerome? (Yes. Then they continue to play cars.)
      • How do you think Jerome feels now?

Puppet show script: When I Feel Angry

    1. At this point, you can introduce the social skill for this session by showing the strategies to use in how to ask a friend to play. Refer to the “Step by Step Visuals” and show them to the children.
      • I can think of safe ways to make my angry feelings go away.
      • I can take a deep breath.
      • I can squeeze something soft like a ball or a pillow.
      • I can stomp my feet.
      • I can count to 10.
      • I can tell someone that I feel angry.
      • I can remember to not hurt others, not hurt myself and don’t break things.

      We recommend keeping these visuals out so the children can refer to them during the puppet show that follows. For example, place them on the floor in the middle of the circle for all the children to see.

Step by step: When I Feel Angry

    1. This special activity is a fun way to practice the anger strategies. Ask the children to stand while you all sing a modified version of the song “If you’re happy and you know it”.
      • If you’re angry and you know it take a deep breath.
      • If you’re angry and you know it take a deep breath.
      • If you’re angry and you know and you really want to show it, if you’re angry and you know it take a deep breath.

      Repeat this verse by inserting other strategies into the song (see underlined part).

    2. The second puppet show that you will be performing is a scenario where one of the puppets does not follow the suggested steps for ‘when you feel angry’. At this time, you will perform the ‘Inappropriate Script’ for when I feel angry.After the puppet show, have a brief discussion with the children about what they saw. Here are some sample questions you may want to ask the children:
      • How is Mona playing with her car? (She crashes her car into Jerome’s car.)
      • How do you think Jerome feels about Mona crashing into his car? (He does not like it.)
      • What does Jerome do with his feelings? Does he try to calm down? (Jerome pushes Mona car. Then Mona pushes back.)
      • What does Jerome do next? (He screams, pushes Mona and takes the car and throws it away.)
      • Did Jerome remember some of the anger strategies?
      • How do you think Jerome feels?
      • How do you think Mona eels?
    3. The story helps to reinforce the steps and desired responses about ‘turn taking’. Read the story to the children. Let them know they will receive a copy of the story to look at later and/or to take home.

Book: When I feel Angry

    1. Here is a chance for the children to remember the anger strategies while playing a bingo game. See the ‘When I Feel Angry Bingo Game’.Prepare: Print out different Bingo cards for each child along with the caller’s cards. Cut out the caller’s cards and put them into a hat or bowl.

      Distribute: Hand out one Bingo card to each child along with the bingo chips/markers (e.g., foam pieces, bits of paper, lego blocks, etc.)

      Call: The caller should pull out one card (image), label it and show it to the children.

      Mark image: The children will then place bingo chips/markers on the called image if it is located on their individual cards.

      Winning: Once a predetermined pattern is made on a card, the child with that card calls out BINGO.

      anger bingo 1 , anger bingo 2

    2. OPTIONAL: The art activity focuses on the sequence of steps involved in expressing anger. You can include this activity as part of the session or use it as a follow up activity to be completed another day.Please refer to the Art Activity sheets.

Art activity: When I Feel Angry

    1. Distribute the “What I did at Social Skills Group” worksheets to each child along with a marker, crayon or pencil. Once the children have all the materials, review the worksheet and point out what needs to be completed in each section.For example,

      Worksheet

      a) Point to the title box and read this to the children.

      b) Ask the children to write their name on this line (point to the line at the top of the paper).

      c) Review the pictures in the “Group time activities” section by pointing to the each picture as you label it. Ask the children to circle the activities from this session.

      d) Here, ask the children to write the name of at least one other child they played or interacted with during the session.

      e) Have the children identify how they were feeling during today’s group session.

      * If you are using name cards or tags, ask the children to place them on the floor in front of them. The name cards can be used to help children to complete the worksheets by writing their own name, and the name(s) of a friend they played with during the session.

      Once the worksheets have been completed, collect the writing materials and ask the children to place the worksheets in front of them. Let the children know they can take the worksheets home to share with their family and friends.

Worksheet: When I Feel Angry

  1. Distribute “When I Feel Angry” books to each child. Let the children know that they can bring the story home to read with their parent(s), family and friends.You may want to include a copy of the story at the book centre in your classroom.
  2. Sing a goodbye song to conclude the social skills session.
    • Sing “Goodbye (child’s name), goodbye (child’s name), goodbye (child’s name), so glad you came today”. Repeat until everyone in the group has been greeted. Encourage the children to join in by waving goodbye and singing along.

Getting Someone’s Attention

Materials Required:

  • 2 puppets
  • toy care and small drawing for the puppet show
  • puppet theatre (optional)
  • visual schedule outlining the schedule for this session
  • rules board
  • crayons, markers or pencils (one per child)
  • scissors (one per child or enough for children to share)
  • glue (one per child or enough for children to share)
  • art activity sheets for “Getting Someone’s Attention” (one per child)
  • “What I did in Social Skills Group” worksheets (one per child)
  • “Getting Someone’s Attention” story books (one per child)

Schedule:

    1. Review the plan for today’s session by showing the children the visual schedule.
      • When reviewing the schedule, point to and name the pictures in order (e.g., first we will sing hello, have a puppet show, etc).
      • You may consider removing each picture as the activity is completed. You can create a pocket at the bottom/end of the schedule that represents “finished” or “all done”.
      • Place the schedule in a visible and accessible place where it can be referred to throughout the session.

Visual Schedule Pictures

    1. Each session begins with a song that welcomes all the children and teachers to the group. Here are a few suggestions:
      • Sing “Hello (child’s name), hello (child’s name), hello (child’s name), so glad you came today”. Repeat until everyone in the group has been greeted. Encourage the children to join in by waving hello and singing along.
      • If age appropriate, create name cards/tags for each child and teacher. Hold up each card while singing the “Hello Song” above. After singing the child’s name give them the name card to hold. Once the song is finished, ask the children to put their name cards behind them. The children can use the name cards later in the session when completing the worksheet.
      • You may also choose to use a “hello” or “welcome” song that you currently sing in your classroom.
    2. A rules board or a positive behaviour chart can help to provide a clear and consistent description of rules and expectations for the session. Decide on the main rules that will help the session run smoothly and help the children be successful in their learning. In our sample board, the rules are: raise your hand for a turn to speak, one person talks at a time, listen to others, sit on the carpet, keep your hands and feet to yourself, and have fun!Review the rules during each session. Have the children look at the rules, point to them and label them. Place the rules board in a visible and accessible place where it can be referred to during the session.

Group Time Rules

    1. OPTIONAL: Review the skill from last session. Ask the children if they remember what they learned in the previous social skills session. Can they recall the steps involved?For example, the previous skill was “When Someone Says Your Name” and the steps are:
      • I have to stop what I am doing.
      • I look at the person calling my name.
      • Then I can answer by saying, “Yah, yes, or I’m here!”
    2. The puppet shows that you will be performing help to demonstrate the concept or skill for this session. At this time, you will be performing the ‘Appropriate Script’ which models the steps involved in getting someone’s attention.After the puppet show, have a brief discussion with the children about what they saw. Here are some sample questions you may want to ask:
      • What was Jerome doing? (He was playing with a toy car.)
      • How did Mona get Jerome’s attention? (She walked up to him and then tapped him on the shoulder.)
      • What did Jerome do next? (He stopped playing, looked at Mona and answered her.)

Puppet show script – Getting Someone’s Attention

    1. At this point, you can introduce the social skill for this session by showing the steps involved in how to appropriately get someone’s attention. Refer to the “Step by Step Visuals” and show them to the children.
      • I can walk towards the person.
      • I can say their name.
      • I can tap them gently on the shoulder.
      • Then, I wait and listen for an answer.

      We recommend keeping these visuals out so the children can refer to them during the puppet show that follows. For example, place them on the floor in the middle of the circle for all the children to see.

Step by step: Getting Someone’s Attention

    1. The second puppet show that you will be performing is a scenario where one of the puppets does not follow the suggested steps for ‘getting someone’s attention’. At this time, you will perform the ‘Inappropriate Script’ for getting someone’s attention.After the puppet show, have a brief discussion with the children about what they saw. Here are some sample questions you may want to ask the children:
      • What was Jerome doing? (He was playing with a toy car.)
      • How did Mona get Jerome’s attention? (She walked up to him and then tapped him on the shoulder and called his name.)
      • Did Mona wait for Jerome to answer? (No, she begins to shake him and screams at him.)
      • How do you think Jerome was feeling?
    2. The story helps to reinforce the steps and desired responses about ‘getting someone’s attention’. Read the story to the children. Let them know they will receive a copy of the story to look at later and/or to take home.

Book: Getting Someone’s Attention

    1. The group game is intended to give the children an opportunity to practice how to get someone’s attention. The following is a suggested group game:This Duck Duck Goose game has been slightly modified to match the steps for getting someone’s attention.

      All of the children will sit down in a circle facing each other. They are now the “Ducks”. Pick one child to be the Fox. The Fox slowly walks around the outside of the circle, gently tapping the other players shoulders while saying “Duck” each time he/she taps. After a few times around the circle, the Fox selects a “Goose” by tapping a player’s shoulder and saying the child’s name (e.g., “Duck, duck, duck, Jasmine!”.

      The child whose name has been called (otherwise known as the ‘Goose’) quickly jumps up and chases the Fox around the circle, trying to tag him/her before he/she can get to the spot where the Goose was just sitting. If the Fox succeeds in taking the place he/she is now safe and the Goose becomes the Fox. If however the Fox is tagged while running from the Goose, he must start the game again.

    2. OPTIONAL: The art activity focuses on the sequence of steps involved in getting someone’s attention. You can include this activity as part of the session or use it as a follow up activity to be completed another day.Please refer to the Art Activity sheets.

Art activity: Getting Someone’s Attention

    1. Distribute the “What I did at Social Skills Group” worksheets to each child along with a marker, crayon or pencil. Once the children have all the materials, review the worksheet and point out what needs to be completed in each section.For example,

      Worksheet

      a) Point to the title box and read this to the children.

      b) Ask the children to write their name on this line (point to the line at the top of the paper).

      c) Review the pictures in the “Group time activities” section by pointing to the each picture as you label it. Ask the children to circle the activities from this session.

      d) Here, ask the children to write the name of at least one other child they played or interacted with during the session.

      e) Have the children identify how they were feeling during today’s group session.

      * If you are using name cards or tags, ask the children to place them on the floor in front of them. The name cards can be used to help children to complete the worksheets by writing their own name, and the name(s) of a friend they played with during the session.

      Once the worksheets have been completed, collect the writing materials and ask the children to place the worksheets in front of them. Let the children know they can take the worksheets home to share with their family and friends.

Worksheet: Getting Someone’s Attention

  1. Distribute “Getting Someone’s Attention” books to each child. Let the children know that they can bring the story home to read with their parent(s), family and friends.You may want to include a copy of the story at the book centre in your classroom.
  2. Sing a goodbye song to conclude the social skills session.
    • Sing “Goodbye (child’s name), goodbye (child’s name), goodbye (child’s name), so glad you came today”. Repeat until everyone in the group has been greeted. Encourage the children to join in by waving goodbye and singing along.